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Archived questions from: September, 2020 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

How can I deal with possessive in-laws?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1511 days ago

28 September 2020 (F) - Hi all, I would love for some honest and real advice about how I could possibly deal with possessive in laws. I have been married 4 years now and have always had issues with my gaining my voice and freedom with my in laws. I am from an Indian ...

Should I feel guilty because I don't want to help my family financially anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1509 days ago

26 September 2020 (F) - Dear everyone, I grow up in a dysfunctional family, where the root start from my own parents. I will try my best to make this short. Everyone hates me even im helping everyone, that include my parents too. Since young about 10 years old im al...

How do you make adult children be nice and respect you and most importantly take responsibility for themselves

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1516 days ago

23 September 2020 (F) - so basically i left a really bad violent marriage 15 years ago (the violence was only towards me) and i’ve been trying to make it up to my 2 daughters ever since, my girls are now aged 19 and 21 and ever since walking out the door from my ex ...

Estranged sister moves in and creates problems, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1518 days ago

20 September 2020 (F) - Hello, I have a question about how to deal with an estranged sister. Years ago, she abandoned my siblings and I for a man. Then had a kid and lived out of the country. I found out that she cheated on her husband with another man so her son moved in ...

My inlaws do nothing for us but expect my husband to drop everything to help them

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1520 days ago

19 September 2020 (F) - My mother-in-law needed work done on her house costing £400 which my husband paid for with the understanding that he would be reimbursed. Now she said to him that she will give him half the money towards it saying it will be his house soon anyway, ...

Should we think about moving in his sisters house? She's bossy and controlling

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1520 days ago

18 September 2020 (F) - Should we think about moving in his sisters house my husbands oldest sister husband passed March of this year she is now saying she wont s to move out her house. I cannot stand her she controlling bossy and sure a pain in our marriage she sto...

I have my own apartment but my family drops by any time unannounced and encourages others to do the same

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1428 days ago

18 September 2020 (F) - Growing up,y parents were very strict. There are three of us: Me (Dierdre, 22), Siobhan (18) and Aiden (14). We had no cable, were allowed VERY few DVDs, ONE computer which was literally only for school research, no cell phones except our parents, ...

Should I ask my friend to be a sperm donor

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1529 days ago

9 September 2020 (F) - Should i ask a male friend if he would be a sperm donor for me ? we are both single and have known each other for a year and half we are not very close but often text to check in with each other , he has no children and isnt looking for a ...

Why do my parents think that way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1530 days ago

9 September 2020 (F) - Hello, lately I am not understanding my parents. They raised me to get a degree and succeed in education which I did. I recently lost a part-time job due to COVID-19 and am getting interviewed soon for another job. My parents don't want me to take ...

I'm not happy keeping secrets in regards to our son's girlfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1533 days ago

7 September 2020 (F) - My son met his gf when he first went to work abroad a few years ago. She is from Brasil. Last year he got all the paperwork he needed and headed off to Brasil to get married. She had told them they could marry in 6wks from his arrival, but tha...

My family always has to drink when there are get togethers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1532 days ago

6 September 2020 (F) - Hi.. it's a family problem I need help with ... Both my mum and dad are functioning drinkers both work hard but like a drink .. my issue is that it's been this way for years and this puts me off drinking and i have struggled for years that no ...

I feel lost in life and myself. I don't know what to do

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1527 days ago

6 September 2020 (F) - I am truly lost in life and myself. i cry constantly and have anxiety and feel alone wherever i go. i just break down in tears in the street and at home everywhere i grew up with an abusive father who called me names and put me down and wouldnt...

How do we cope with this? My dad kicked out my mom to move in his younger gay lover

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1534 days ago

5 September 2020 (F) - Life in quarantine has been tough recently; Dad split up from Mom (and she's heartbroken about it) and Mom moved in with me and my partner of 3 years. He broke up with Mom for a younger illegal immigrant from the U.S. (the guy's only 24, that's year ...

It's SO NOT FAIR that he gets to deduct from child support whenever he wants and says I'm taking advantage of him! I'm SO UPSET!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1538 days ago

3 September 2020 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm feeling quite sad and upset tonight. Seeking some advice on how to process what I am feeling and/or what to do about it. I wrote for advice a month ago (I think) about this topic, but at that time it was focused on how my daughter ...