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Archived questions from: January, 2021 (see latest in Dating category)

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His cooking style annoys me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

30 January 2021 (F - When my boyfriend cooks, he never follows a recipe. He will add random ingredients (ones that in my view really don’t work with the recipe) or add the wrong quantities. Doesn’t matter if he’s cooking sweet or savoury, it’s always the same. The ...

I don't know how to tell a girl that I like her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1397 days ago

29 January 2021 (M - hello im divine from nigeria i dont know how to tell a girl i like her im a very shy person. can someone help me out all my friends have girl friends but i dont im piesed off. help! ...

Why did a married man with a child on the way date me? I had no idea he wasn't single

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1404 days ago

20 January 2021 (F - I just want to make sure I'm not crazy. I dated this guy for about a year and we really hit it off. We split and remained in touch. I will admit I still liked him. I moved away and came back in town he told me he had a girlfriend so I backed off. ...

How do I respond without putting him off? I'm not sure if he just wants a casual relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1407 days ago

18 January 2021 (F - I met a guy at work around a year ago for a few weeks - we saw each other around a few times. Nothing more too it. He added me on Facebook the other week and we have really hit it off , chatting non stop, very interested in my life etc ,obviou...

Does anyone have any experience or advice in dealing with herpes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1396 days ago

17 January 2021 (M - I recently started dating a girl. I don’t really see the point in casual dating, so my mind is focused on finding someone to marry, that I can be with forever and be happy. So far everything has been great and seems to get better as we get to kno...

My girlfriend is lying to me about something so inconsequential but because she's lying I want to end things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1402 days ago

16 January 2021 (M - Hi, This feels so stupid but please read the whole thing. I dislike social media and it annoys me that its done this however it has caused an issue for my relationship. Through out the relationship my girlfriend of 7 months has mentioned the na...

Boyfriend's comment have me wondering if I want to continue relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1405 days ago

16 January 2021 (F - I am in my early 50s and my boyfriend is 5 years younger. We both have grown up kids. He is financially much better off than me. He has successful couple businesses, owns few houses. I think his worth is couple millions dollars. His living habit...

Boyfriend said he didn't like our fighting and needed to think about it. What does that mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1410 days ago

15 January 2021 (F - My bf and I have had an amazing relationship the past year. Everything is great besides our arguments here and there. We had our first big fight the other night leading to me leaving his place to go home and cool off. The next few days without me ...

My boyfriend's strange actions have made me totally lose interest in him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1414 days ago

11 January 2021 (F - Okay.... I started dating this guy for a year. He lives at home with his Parents he’s 30 he has a son and he’s going through a divorce. This weekend I went to his house. I saw a lot that I didn’t see before. His mom babies him and he just h...

My girlfriend has too much time on her hands and its driving me crazy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1414 days ago

10 January 2021 (M - Hi there I wrote before about my girlfriend always wanting to talk on the phone and text. I had a discussion with her and she said she would try not to be so clingy. Unfortunately that didn't go far. Today she said I don't message much a...

My boyfriend finally proposed after 15 years and now I'm not sure if I want to marry him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

10 January 2021 (F - Please could I get some advice on my love life? I'm so torn, basically i've waited years for my boyfriend to propose, in fact i'd more or less given up on the idea and emotionally exited the relationship but now he's suddenly decided he wants...

Should I Leave or am I to blame?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1403 days ago

5 January 2021 (F - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I had insecurities in the beginning but I worked on them and haven't has issues like that for at least 2 years. He first became extremely angry (name calling and violence) in the beginning and said that I had ...

Was I selfish for breaking up with him or was it for the best?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1414 days ago

4 January 2021 (F - Hi everyone! So 6 months ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years and I’ve been plagued with guilt since. 2 years ago my bf witnessed/went through something extremely traumatic and was diagnosed with PTSD, during the early days of his diagnosi...

The man I'm dating has a take it or leave it attitude thats hard for me to deal with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1424 days ago

1 January 2021 (F - Hello! I’m looking for a bit of advice about a man who isn’t very emotionally expressive (or maybe just not that into me). I have been ‘dating’ a guy for three months now, seeing each other only when allowed because of COVID (around 5 dates) b...

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