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Archived questions from: December, 2020 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Gf of 2.5 years abruptly moved out - unclear whether I should give up or try to work things out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1420 days ago

30 December 2020 (M) - I am at a loss for what to do with this one. I dated a girl who was 7 years younger than me for over 2.5 years and we lived together for about 7 months. Aside from an issue I have with snoring, things seemed to be going well. 9 days before she moved ...

Is the relationship worth it or should I end it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1423 days ago

30 December 2020 (M) - Here is the short version for those who don't want too much background: In a relationship for 10 years. Relationship is good 95% of the time but any time conflict arises and my girlfriend gets mad she breaks up, says she doesn't want to be with ...

I don't like the choices my girlfriend made in the past getting involved with someone who was involved with someone else

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1426 days ago

29 December 2020 (M) - Hi, Need advice Bit of a tricky one. Been with my girlfriend for seven months Everything is going well. A couple of months ago my girlfriend told me about a past fling/relationship she had with her cousins brother in law she met at a fami...

Why do I end up being the side chick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1428 days ago

29 December 2020 (F) - I am 26 years old and I know there is nothing wrong with me ,but for some reason men who are in a relationship always find there away to me . It’s not that I look desperate or something I am no longer doing online dating etc or looking for a ...

Do I chose between 2 men that don't have all the qualities I want or wait for the whole package?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1426 days ago

29 December 2020 (F) - Okay, so I am knee deep into online dating right now apart from the matrimonial search my parents are on. Until now I have either fallen in love in accidental ways or intensely dated one person at a time. I don't have enough experience to ob...

Why does my girlfriend need to talk to this older guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1424 days ago

25 December 2020 (M) - My girlfriend talks to this older guy. She is 24 and he is late 40s. When I found out, she said I don’t need to know what i don’t need to worry about - she is very loyal to me. I did not like the fact she spoke to him daily. I became increasingly ...

My always broke boyfriend asked for money and when I offered him some he said it wasn't nearly enough

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1427 days ago

23 December 2020 (F) - Hello So I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and hes always broke. Always some scenario happening. I have grown tired of it. His most recent request is hes broke can I help him. I offered 80.00 and he declined. He said it's not enoug...

My boyfriend loves to travel but I don't. How do we get past this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1435 days ago

22 December 2020 (F) - My boyfriend has a longtime passion for travel. He has flown to many places all over the world before we met. I, on the other hand, don't need to travel to be happy. And I don't share his passion. I am also terrified of flying. He is now planning ...

Is it ok for her to act like this when she has a partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1436 days ago

20 December 2020 (M) - My partner and I are both 40. We’ve been together for about 5 months. She’s a fairly recent divorcee who I was friends with for 10 years before we got together. I adore her, but she flirts with other men and it does my head in. She was abused...

I can't be the only reason someone lives or dies

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1435 days ago

19 December 2020 (F) - I am in a fairly new relationship however me and this guy have been great friends for the past 2 years so it feels like we have been together for a lot longer than 4 months. Recently he has become really clingy and shown some things I think are ...

He can't get hard anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1438 days ago

18 December 2020 (F) - I’ve been dating a guy for about five months will call him, Richard The first two months we weren’t physical and then the second two months we started sleeping together. No issues except he is on antidepressants and if any of you have ever been o...

Is anyone ever too busy really if they are interested in more than friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1437 days ago

18 December 2020 (M) - Hi! So basically I'm very interested in a girl, we seem to match well, we have fun when we meet, but I feel it's not really progressing. Whenever I talk to her, she is very warm, thoughtful, asking lots of questions, suggesting things we ...

Is he hiding his true feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

17 December 2020 (F) - Hello my favourite advice group. I used to write here in the past , and even was a moderator but it’s been a long time and I’ve forgotten my username. Anyway , I am writing about this guy i met online about a month ago. We started texting and...

Is he just taking it slow?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1442 days ago

13 December 2020 (F) - I met a guy from a dating site a year ago. I am still on the dating site and so is he and he sent a messsge to say that we tried before but I got nasty with him. I told him I could not remember why and I just thought he wasn’t interested in me. He ...

How can I STILL be obsessing over a girl who I haven't seen in 3 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1447 days ago

10 December 2020 (M) - Hi cupids! Here's one for you... I really, really liked this girl I used to work with. She was undoubtedly the most beautiful, funny, smart and articulate girl I'd ever met. Her eyes just made me melt whenever I gazed into them. She literally b...

Is his behaviour is acceptable or controlling in anyway?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1447 days ago

7 December 2020 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months and it has been good for the most part however we fight whenever I wear a shirt that is low cut, something that shows my bra (even the smallest amount) or a skirt, which I wear shorts under. I ...

My mental health is suffering and its contributing to my relationship turning toxic

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1450 days ago

6 December 2020 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. We've recently moved in together but things haven't been good for almost a year. I've had anxiety and depression most my life but can usually manage it, however with everything that'...

She said she misses me more but has not responded to my last msg , what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1452 days ago

5 December 2020 (M) - hi guys, been a long time since i posted here ! Just wanted some quick advice Been chatting to a girl online for about a year now, we finally met up a month ago and sparks flew, we were both a little bit shocked that we got along so wel...

Would I be selling myself out if I dated a girl who bullied me in school?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1449 days ago

4 December 2020 (M) - A girl who used to bully me at school started messaging me out of the blue and has asked me out. She hasn’t apologised or even acknowledged what she did yet is being nice as pie to me now. I suppose it’s partly my fault because I’ve not brought...

I feel like I'm living with Mr. Perfect and its making the relationship hard to maintain

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1200 days ago

3 December 2020 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles. I’m after some advice regarding the way my boyfriend is with me. I don’t want to put words into anybody’s mouth so I will just state the facts and give some examples of some recent, and some ongoing situations. Firstly t...

Is our relationship going to work if she can never trust me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1452 days ago

2 December 2020 (M) - My girlfriend keeps checking my phone on the sly, almost every other day. I've lost count of the amount of times I've caught her snooping and her looking all embarrassed about it. She says she can't help herself if I leave it lying around, which I ...