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Archived questions from: November, 2017 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I'm obsessed with the man I had a little bit of fun with, 16 years ago!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - This is really weird. So, some 16 years ago, I had a one night stand with this acquaintance - we traveled together to a new city with a group of friends and stayed in the same house. I was relatively sexually inexperienced and socially inept. The ...

I like a guy but he seems to prefer a slimmer girl, do I have a chance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2547 days ago

28 November 2017 (F) - Been working at Starbucks for about a year now, it's right next to my uni business school. There's a guy who's been coming in for the last few months and is pretty lush hehe, blond, blue eyes, muscular and wears our uni rugby T shirt, he's rly tall ...

He will be away for my whole school break and I got mad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

24 November 2017 (F) - I met a guy maybe a week ago...hes 16 n m 15,,, i like him a lot n we've been meeting daily/...at first we were both shy to even hug but now i can at least let him hold my hand...hes beebn saying he has something to tell me since 3 days ago/..but he ...

I'm obsessed with my co-worker and I know not what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

24 November 2017 (M) - I am crushing really badly on my co worker, I cannot stop thinking about her. She is not interested in me but my feelings won't go away and I fear its turning into an obsession. I do not know what I must do, I have tried to avoid her but this makes ...

I love her, but can't say it out loud!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

23 November 2017 (M) - i knew this girl for 3 months now and we are getting along so well, i love everything about her and i feel like home when i'm with her. we match to each other and have the same frequency. i'm a great listener and i love to listen to her speak. ...

Am I missing something here? He asked for my number but never called!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 22 y/o female from Memphis, TN .. ? I recently got close with this guy that I work with .. We talk, laugh, and joke .. He even gave me a little cute nickname. At first I wasn't really into it, but then I started to really enjoy th...

I sent him a nude, I hope he hasn't lost respect for me.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - I posted a while ago saying i had a met a man with quite an usual job- he's a travel author (fairly successful). He is 35 years old, is in the public eye quite a lot and has a lot of female attention. I went on 2 dates with him back in june but then ...

The guy I've liked from afar is being a little wierd

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - Hi, I need some advice, I haven't dated in ages, I am 43, just went through a rough patch with major losses, illness etc, now better but I am still fragile. Anyway, since last year I meet maybe every 2/3 months this guy through work, older (I ...

Am I reasonable to choose money over potential happiness?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - Dear aunts, I am in a fix as I type this. I made a first attempt at online dating about 7 months ago and the only guy I really had an interest in, we hit it off. It was rocky at first but we are amazing now and not a day goes by without us chatting ...

Should I leave a little heart in his desk?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

17 November 2017 (F) - Is it ok to leave a little heart in his desk? Just want to know some opinions. There's this guy at work that I like and I'm sure he likes me too. But I think it was my mistake by not showing interest in him and I think he has distanced a littl...

What's the ettiquette regarding texting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

13 November 2017 (M) - Hello aunties and uncles, I am a gay male and I have a bit of a general "romantic interest" in the modern social media era type of question. To abridge all the details, there's this gay guy I am very interested in. We know each other for quite ...

I'm sorry I took her back ... should I end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - SHould i end wid her? she and i came in relation even if she had a boyfriend back then. i somehow convinced her to come in relation. cuz i loved her. but she was kinda confused between him and me. been in relation for 2 months. i had to leave the...

New Relationship Reflection, Age Gap and Polyamory

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - I have been recently seeing a man that is 10 years older than me, I am 21, he is 31. Saw him at the bar and asked for his number, had a date, was pretty nervous but ended well with us making out and finding out we were really physically compatible. ...

I've developed feelings for this guy who is 2 years older!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

9 November 2017 (F) - i met this guy 2 years ago and i developed feelings for him since we met to do projects quite often. he is 2 years older than me so he was always mentoring me. like i said, i developed feelings for him but recently i don't feel anything for him. he ...

I have feelings for a recently married woman.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2566 days ago

8 November 2017 (M) - I recently realized i have feelings for a woman who has not long been married, it is at the point that i can't think of anything else, i'm not sure if she has picked up on this by my body language, i am dying to tell her how i feel but..i can't ...

My confidence issues are stopping me asking for a date.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

7 November 2017 (M) - Started messaging a girl I knew from school a few years younger than me around 3 months ago but she'd just gone travelling. It was fun and kept it up throughout her trip and her interactions with me on social media increased so thought she might be ...

Does he like me? He has a girlfriend but what's with his behaviour towards me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2546 days ago

7 November 2017 (F) - There's a guy who I work with, we work at a recreational centre for youths. I've noticed he's been acting different around me when we work together. I'll list a few examples: whenever we talk, he'll make eye contact and then he looks at my lips, he...

Still missing the X-Factor... what does he have that I dont?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2572 days ago

4 November 2017 (M) - I might drive a Mercedes Benz, and he does not. I might hold a degree, have been to business school, and he does not and hasn't. Well before I perceived her as a love interest, I stepped in to fill in gaps regarding her father figure in life. ...

I'm confused, is she interested or just making conversation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2575 days ago

2 November 2017 (M) - So I work with someone who I find attractive. I have never led her on or flirted with her. I am in a happy relationship and she is married. But sometimes I have to work with her and sometimes she will touch me or make light conversation about my ...

He duped me! How do I learn the red flags and move on?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

1 November 2017 (F) - I had seen this guy in a walking group over the past 5 months. We were friends a few years ago but lost touch. Over the months he has dropped hints that he likes me, has cuddled and held me for long periods of time and kissed my cheek in a loving ...