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writes:I am crushing really badly on my co worker, I cannot stop thinking about her. She is not interested in me but my feelings won't go away and I fear its turning into an obsession. I do not know what I must do, I have tried to avoid her but this makes matters worse, I have tried keeping it professional with her but everything she does and the lack of attention she gives me upsets me. Please advise me on the best cause of action, would it be wise for me to leave?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2017): How do you know she is not interested in you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2017): I think you should talk to her, this way you are going to know for sure if she's interested in you or not. She doesn't know you like her. So talk to her, become friends like you do with other people.
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reader, TylerSage +, writes (25 November 2017):
 Obsessed is a pretty strong word. Plus the possibility of her upsetting you due to a lack of attention is a very distinct observation. You mentioned that you "....fear its turning into an obsession". Maybe you should try talking with a friend our counsellor about how you feel in this situation. It appears this girl has greater control over your emotions than you do and as a result it could lead to you doing something you could regret. Try some meditation or exercise to help get your emotions in check.How do you know she isn't interested? Have you tried to ask her out or anything or do you just believe she wouldn't be interested? Women don't usually fall for men who are obsessed with them so the approach is wrong. The best way to get over someone you can't be with is to be with someone else.All the best.
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reader, Billy Bathgate +, writes (24 November 2017):
Your obsession is going to cost you your job and possibly more. If you can’t stop thinking about her and from what I read it is clear you can’t it may be time to seek employment elsewhere.
Leave while you have your dignity and your reputation intact.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2017): Don't leave you need to face it. Try to talk with her if ok then go ahead but uf not it'll much easier to overcome your emotions toward her.
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