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Archived questions from: November, 2018 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I married the man I was having an affair with and I am struggling with trust issues, and feeling anxious and worried everyday he will cheat on me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2185 days ago

26 November 2018 (F) - My husband left his former wife to marry me. I know that it does not usually end up this way and that we are in the minority but we fell in love. We have been together almost 5 years. He dissolved his marriage after 3 years of our being together and ...

Who is the cheater?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2184 days ago

24 November 2018 (F) - If you have a baby with a man and he ditches you and then some years later you meet him again and he goes back to wanting to sex you again and you can't stop wanting to see him and then you find out he already has a girlfriend who he is still ...

I think he's going through a midlife crisis he went to Thailand and met a girl and he doesn't know that I know

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2190 days ago

18 November 2018 (F) - I have been dating a man for over a year who has just recently gone through a divorce. (Nothing to do with me). I felt he used me as a punching bag as he was very angry about the divorce although I knew he loved me. He stopped speaking to me f...

I need to tell my family that I was duped!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2198 days ago

13 November 2018 (F) - Hi All. Please bear with as this is quite complicated. So I’m 30 years old, had a few relationships before my current one. This time i thought it was never going to end. We have been living together for 4 years. He is of a different race religi...

Baby daddy is secure financially but I love a poor refugee.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2198 days ago

13 November 2018 (F) - I am in a relationship with the father of my daughter and I live with someone else ...my baby daddy is okay ...he can provide ...he loves me very much ...and his financially doing fairly ...the guy I love with is a refugee and broke...but we love ...

My husband has had numerous affairs and somehow it's all my fault! Will he ever accept me and make me feel good about myself?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2198 days ago

13 November 2018 (F) - I am the most pathetic person I have been married for 28 years. When we met we lived a long way from each other and eventually I moved 250 miles to where he lived. At the time this was because his job was better paid than mine but I now realise ...

I'm married and in (unrequited) love with someone else for years. How can I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2196 days ago

12 November 2018 (M) - Hello aunts. I am almost 35 and married, but deeply in love with someone else who does not feel the same way about me. For the long story, please read below. Year 1: A few years ago, halfway through a master’s degree, I had to quit school and ...

Worst mistake of my life!! Don’t know what to do

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2185 days ago

11 November 2018 (F) - I’m in the worst situation I could ever be in in my life I’ve made the biggest mistake ever and now I don’t know what to do I am suffering badly! I am 14 weeks pregnant but ended up cheating the night before I found out I was pregnant I know how bad ...

My girlfriend is perfect, but I want an open relationship.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2183 days ago

11 November 2018 (M) - Hi people. I met my current girlfriend a little over two years ago and I was not the social type back then. I never really went out a lot and hanging out with friends was pretty much 'indoor'. After I met her I became very outgoing. We went t...

Should I be strong and not burden people with my problems?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2201 days ago

10 November 2018 (F) - I'm really upset but wondering if I have every right to be or if my boyfriend was spot on and I need to get a grip. I have two children with my ex, we were together 8 years but then he cheated with his now wife. They got married within months of...

I cheated, fell pregnant, boyfriend left, I believe its his baby.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2201 days ago

9 November 2018 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend and I found out I was pregnant in a month time. When I told my boyfriend about it he told me to give birth but after he will have a DNA test. I had to tell him the truth that I cheated on him.he then said he is not ...

She seems open but what if she is telling me lies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2200 days ago

9 November 2018 (M) - Been single now for about 5 months after a long term relationship, and met someone a few weeks ago that i hit it off with, it happend very randomly and out of the blue. being careful, or at least trying to be ive had my guard up. but it feels right ...

I'm sick of this man being a ghost in our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2203 days ago

8 November 2018 (M) - Early this year my girlfriend did an internship in another city. I was too busy to visit and she didn't have much time either, so she only travelled back here a couple of times. I missed her and was looking forward to her getting back. Then she ...

We are on a break but working on our relationship ... he doesn't understand how his actions affected me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2204 days ago

7 November 2018 (F) - 7 months ago, my ex and I broke up, mutually. Our relationship was long-term. A few days after our breakup I accidentally read a conversation in his facebook account between him and a female friend. The conversation was very intimate, and almost ...

She loves me but has a LDR boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2205 days ago

7 November 2018 (M) - A girl has a boyfriend but she loves me. Her boyfriend lives far than Im living close to me. We had sex several times and we both promise to get married but she is yet break up with him? I need some advice.....

I stood by him even while he lied and said he was single now he doesn't want me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2204 days ago

6 November 2018 (F) - Hello to all. I do need help I need some advice or at least someone who does not judge me or listen to me. I met an Iraqi man four years ago. He arrived to the USA as a refugee. We met in person one night I was out with some girlfriends and he was ...

My boyfriend spends all day on a dating app.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2199 days ago

5 November 2018 (F) - I don't know what to do as my b I yfriend is on a dating app day and night there's no photo of him and details just it shows his location home and work. I don't know what to do I just don't get if he's looking for me on there OE someone else. I see ...

I don't understand why she did this to me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2204 days ago

2 November 2018 (M) - I know part of the answer. She's selfish. Has some severe mental health issues but so do I, so I'm trying not to hold it against her. Been scouring all over the internet to understand. Narcissist? Bipolar? Just trying to make sense of all this. ...

My husband seems to think I am a bank, smokes weed all day and chats with other women!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2189 days ago

1 November 2018 (F) - Hello My husband isnt working and I am providing for our family. He is unable to work do to his new arrival to my country. During hid time here, he tells me his friends back home need an apartment to rent and they need to open up their ow...

I saw a strange number on my husband's phone, called it and a woman answered. Should I confront him about it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2208 days ago

1 November 2018 (F) - Hi, I'm needing help on what to do next in my situation . OK, so I checked his phone. But I had to. He's been acting strange lately. I saw a phone number that called him this morning. And the call lasted 23 minutes so he had a conversation...