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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

He lies to me constantly...is he cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - hi pls help, my head is a mess! iv been with my bf for 2months, he was in a r/ship for 6yrs b4 me, iv had doubts with trust becus he lies to me so much, once i was stoppin at his mates with him n they thought i was asleep n thy were talking about ...

Can you help me figure out my conception date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - If my last period was on November 20-29th(not sure the exact day) and i gave birth on August 19th to twin girls both weighing 6pds, could i have conceived on December 15th? I know i need to get a DNA test between 2 men. I was with one guy for the ...

My hubby rarely has initiatives, and I need to feel wanted! Would it be wrong to have an affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I am married but I don't know what it is about me that I feel I need to have this affair. I have not yet gotten involved, but am seriuosly thinking about it. I have a few guy friends that really want to, knowing that I am married, but my question is ...

Was the tarot card reader a phony? We were supposed to marry but now we are married to other people and cheated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5922 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I’m happily married and in love with my husband and on Friday I bumped into my Ex on myspace who is now married too, so I thought we’d just have a casual conversation since it’s been more than 12 or 13yrs. Some how a msg, ended up to IMing. We spoke ...

I'm pregnant and having a fling! It's hurting me because we can never be 'official'....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - im 22 yrs old with child and a partner.for the past couple of months i have been having a fling with someone who i know really well, but he has his own family too and i think im falling in love with him.i cant help it and its hurting me because i ...

Should I have an affair because my husband acts like I'm not important?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - i am 43, married, but i have always had guys around me. Never have been "alone". Recently got married, but i still have these guys as friends, my husband sometimes treatsme, i feel, as though I am not important to him. I am thinking about having an ...

It's like I'm having some weird, platonic affair with the guy I work with but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I am in love with a guy I work with and it is driving me mad! We have been really good friends for a long time now and spend most lunchtimes together. A few months ago after a work night out he kissed me and said he liked me, since then i have ...

Getting him out of my life isn't an option. What can I do to get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I am 16 and i am in love with an ex. When i was 14 I met him,he was 16 and rather gorgous. We went out for a couple of months. It wasnt serious, cause i was only 14, then we split up over him liking my best friend. After that he went round my ...

Does he want a baby with me or was this an accident?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I need help. I have a sex buddy who Im falling in love with, and we usually use condoms, but has gradually changed. Now we don't use condoms and occassionally he doesn't "pull out". Last night he didn't pull out. I'm wondering does he want a baby by ...

Is it normal to worry about your wife cheating on you during a deployment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

4 September 2008 (M) - Is it normal to worry about your wife cheating on you during a deployment? It's hard to not think about it from time to time. I feel I worry more because of my cirmcumstances. I have'nt even known my wife for a full year, about 10 months. Theres a...

I'm not calling this guy again but why did he give me his number? He never responded!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - Ok, now what happens when the case is this: I had a terrible fall out with my boyfriend and I went out to think things over and in fact I was thinking I should leave him, because he did something I felt was really wrong.Our relationship was not ...

I love my official boyfriend and he doesn't know that I cheat on him, I don't know why I'm doing this to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - i am a female aged 25 and single. i have 3 men in my life. i have sleept with them all. 2 are married, 1 is a devorcee and they are all 37years old. my official boyfriend(my friends kno abt him)is the divorcee. one of the married men knows about my ...

Should I be angry or have mercy? My dad cheated on my mom.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - hey i dont know whats right anymore! ok so my father cheated on my mom... and then he is still living in our home but he is being insulted by my other relatives and others are saying he is a shame to our family...a part of me feels sorry for him i ...

All the while he was making me believe I was the one he wanted and he was working on his problems, he was having dates and sex with others. Your opinions?

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4 September 2008 (F) - No sure how to start this off. I'll try to keep it short. Met a man 4 years ag. Dated for 2 and then got engaged. Started to plan life together..house and all. Soon as we moved in together he became increasingly controlling and paranoid about any ...

After I got pregnant, he left me and got someone new!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5922 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - i found out a month ago i was pregnant. i had this bf and we were close as in we went everywhere together, we were inseparable we were dating for a year. when we found out we got in a huge fight which we stopped talking for a few days we both had ...