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female
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30-35,
JSB1993
writes:When we are intimately involved with someone sometimes we see them as an escape, we don't realise it but we break away from who we really are. At the time, it seems to be a good thing for you that your experiencing these range of emotions with this one person who you adore and adores you. For whatever reasons, people break away from eachother and all the love and romance can turn bitter, or can simply just disappear and you have nothing left. You feel closed off and find it extremely hard to return to the person you once were. Theres a hole in your heart, and whenever their name is said your heart drops to your stomach. These are all the normal things to be feeling when you are split from someone you are so used to being close with. What i'm trying to say is all those people out there for whatever reason have experienced a relationship with someone for a while and are finding it hard to let go that you will be okay. It's new year and it's time to make a new start, the first thing i did was change my appearance to make myself feel confident. When i was with my ex i let myself go alot to i took myself shopping and had my hair done so i felt confident againt o go out and meet new people just like i was when i was single before! Then came new year, i had a complete sort out in my room and got rid of things i didnt need and after that i knew i was going to be okay. You have to want to move on, and you have to be able to accept the situation before you can move on, but to all you people out there who are finding it hard it may seem cliche but i wish i had someone to tell me these things that it WILL be okay, and the feelign won't stay with you forever. You have to come out the other end with lessons learnt ready to take those lessons with you into new relationships :)
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reader, ladyo  +, writes (22 January 2009):
After 26 years of being with the same person, I have become them and finding it hard to find someone that i can be compatable and find happiness. Everyone in my age bracket is either married, dead or just not interested. I do not do bars, clubs or social. My employment make it difficult to find someone due to the rank structure.My question where do I start, if I am going to be hahppy again.
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