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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: hey i recently got dumped by the love of my life he was my everything he made me feel like i was his everything he told me i was the one and stuff .. throughout our year and a half relationship i felt really close and trusted him with my life .. he knew that .... over course of our relationship i brought him stuff that had great value eg jim beam authentic bar fridge ,ipod dock car kit footy gurnseys ...and other stuff.. i did this because i loved him and cared for him loads as u do... he brought himself a house in which i helped him renovate all the time .. no matter what he wanted i would dio it .. it was love..i drove him places with his mates so he could drink have a good time .. all this was done out of the goodness of my heart ... one day his feelings just changed and i was dumped it was 4 days after his bday i brought him over 800 bucks worth of sporting memorabilia ..again cos he was worth it ... we dont talk or anything it sucks he told me we will remain great mates and stuff like that .. i feel really hurt and really annoyed that he could treat me like this after all i did 4 him .. i didnt realize that loving somone and caring would end up like this .. i saw him 4 the first time the other day he was drinking at a bar i was at and he was all over me flirting and carrying on .. he pecked me on the lips a few times and grabbed my hand and put it on his jeans i pulled away cos i knew it was wrong ... i just dont understand him hes just brushed me aside but yet he does that he never calls or txt me ... i caled him and asked him what the go was he told me he was drunk and doesnt remember what he done but he remembers everything else of the the night he said he doesnt want to be with me and he not goin to give the relationship another go .. is he just messing with my head or is he still attracted in his weird ways
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (3 January 2009):
He probably still finds you attractive on one level.
You as a woman won't stop being beautiful because he doesn't want to be with you.
But he's made himself clear and he's been heartless in dumping you.
You seem very bitter about how much money you have spent on him so you could ask for his birthday presents back if you want to get a bit of your cash.
As for him, consider him gone and start trying to move on. You seem to be leaving stage 1 (denial) by asking us to confirm that yes he has ended it, and you are entering Stage 2 (anger) by going on about how you spent lots of cash on him.
This is a good sign. Ride it through and you'll be fine.
Good Luck!! xx
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