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Archived questions from: 5 June, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

We started a fire and want to pay back the damage annonymously

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - ok so we kinda started a fire. Basicaly we were filming a short movie and ,well lets put it this way. Dont use homemade pyrotecnics. We destroyed £80s worth of corn. How do we pay back the farmer while remaining anonymous?...

I keep saying "What"?? and its turning into a problem!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Ok, completely crazy question here. Not sure it's relationship related... but anyway. I keep saying 'what?'. Like if my boyfriend turns and looks at me smiling, or if he has an odd expression on his face... I just ask 'what?' - not in a defensi...

How to fix our lesbian relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I've been with my lesbian lover for twenty years. Her oldest brother has lived with us off and on for several of those years. Now I'm finding that while she has rebuffed all my overtures at physical attention, for the last year or three, I'm ...

What did she mean by this comment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - What did she mean with this comment? Ok, so we're eating cake just celebrating my boyfriend's B-day and he's joking around about how he got no presents nor anything to unwrap. And she says, 'Well I'm sure she gave you something to unwrap.' And just ...

Don't want to push him away, but don't want him to seem I don't care.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I met up with a guy i use to go to school with in February of this year. He was so loving and did everything he could for me. He txt several times a day and rang until the beginning of May. I was on a night out with friends and at the start of the ...

Why cant I get aroused anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - ive been on the bc pill for over 6 months but out of no-where all this month i havent been able to get aroused by anything not even my partner i dont no why and dont no what to do advise plz...

I will be introducem to her parents. How to make a good impression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I am going to meet my friend with benefits parents tomorrow night and was wondering if anyone had any tips on how to leave a good impression on them. She will probs introduce me to them and we will talk for a short time, then we will go watch a ...

Is it wrong of me not to want to travel to far off Asia for my g/f's brother's wedding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - Is it wrong of me to not want to go to my gf's brothers wedding early next year? He lives and is getting married in far off asia and it would be expensive and something i really just wouldn't want to do. I felt i had a valid point when i told her i ...

How can I have sex with her without her knowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - hi am a boy,i want to do sex with my friends sister.She has a boyfriend but she likes me also.She always gives me hugs and kisses but never gives me permision to do sex.She says "DO whatever you want while am sleeping but i should not get any ...

I think she was raped: How can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I have a delimma. Me and this girl I know have been friends about 8 or 9 years. she and I are best friends,tho we are both in relationships. She came to me the other night with a problem. She was at a bar having a drink and somehow some guy she knew ...

I've always practiced safe sex, but now I have a genital wart. I feel this will ruin my life. How can I get rid of it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I have just found out during my annual pap smear that I have HPV or a genital wart about 1cm inside my vagina. Its a single tiny hard lump but the doctor says its a wart all the same. Im a grown woman, educated (have 2 degrees), intelligent and cant ...

I need help making an important decision. Is Scotland better than the US?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I have to make a life altering decision. I have to decide whether or not to stay in my home state and finish my education or start afresh abroad in Scotland. I am an aspiring filmmaker and I think Scotland will offer more artistic outlets...

Does he just want sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - me and this boy have been communicating for like almost two months, but our first hookup was like 3 weeks a go. we usually like text for 2 hours eveyr night, except this week we barely have. whenever we do though, he says real cute things, and ...

Should I leave him so he can be with his daughter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5653 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Hey just need some advice on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and the problem is his babymother. He has his daughter cause his baby mother had her for 2 yrs and she was out the out state, so she finally brang her to him cause he ...

I have major trust issues with men. How can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I think I have a problem with men. And, I think this problem originates from the way I was taught to perceive men as a child. My father is not a bad man, not compared to a lot of fathers. He provided for his family and gave us the things we needed ...

"I'm sorry I fell for you..."

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - If a guy left a message on the phone and ended it with: "I'm sorry I fell for you..." how would that make you feel?...