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writes:I have a delimma. Me and this girl I know have been friends about 8 or 9 years. she and I are best friends,tho we are both in relationships. She came to me the other night with a problem. She was at a bar having a drink and somehow some guy she knew was supposed to take her home and end up not doing it. Long story short she calls me at around midnight to come get her. I am not stupid. I know he did something to her. I am pretty sure she was raped, but she isn't talking to anyone. When I picked her up, she was just over and over saying take me home, so I did. I want to help her what can I do? she stayed with me and my girl and all night she tossed and turned, even crying in her sleep. What do we do?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (5 June 2009):
 i think you're right.
but she probably feels really horrible and that it's her fault which it ISN'T
but she will feel like that.
all you can really do for now is be there for her anyway you can.
just be careful with her don't make her talk and stuff because like she won't want too she will in her own time and when she does all you can do is be there and support her.
just try and support her in anyway you can really.
hope this helps.
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reader, muffy +, writes (5 June 2009):
 OKay,I believe you could be right.Being raped isn't something people like to talk about though.It's emberrassing and it hurts.She's gonnah need some time before she talks about it.Just keep being her friend and when she wants to tell you what happend she will.Just don't push her though cause she can crack and go into an emotional state of mind and become depressed.You don't want that.And when she does tell you,ask her if theres anything you can do and do whatever you can to make her feel better.I hope she gets better.
I hope my advice helped
Love always,Muffy
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