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writes:I'm a shy male teen who essentially goes unnoticed by the female sex!I don't think I'm ugly or unattractive,but I also don't think I'm amazingly handsome.I have some confidence issues as well as trust issues.One of my female friends said I was an amazing catch,and something that girls would want in a few years.However currently I am unnoticed by girls and they seem to pay no attention to me or have any interest.Is there a way to become more confident around girls,and what signals do girls give to let you know they like you...Thanks for the help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): Well, if i like a guy i tend to smile at him every now n again or twist my hair around my finger. But different girls act differently. I think it depends on the girl's confidence. Some girls laugh all the time n others hang all over the guys. These are just a few things i've seen at skl. Lol. Hpe i am helpin. X.
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (4 January 2009):
you need to start taking control and giving yourself some help. get socilizing more and come out of your shell. you dont have to be loud and gobby for people to notice you just more yourself around the oppisite sex. start talking to them more and if theres a girl you like then why not make that first move? its hard to pluck up the courage but its better than playing the guessing game of does she like me? etc be straight to the point and when you get talking to her explain how you find it hard at times around girls etc.
signals vary, some are obvious and some go un noticable for ever! if some body likes you no matter what type of personality they have they cannot sheild there feelings when around you, so a lot of the time you can see it. being yourself more will bost your confidence, dont worry so much about if your doing things right etc just be youself and stay honest about it. there may be a girl who has an interest in you but you havent seen it yet, maybe as your to worried about singals! take what comes natural and it will shine through till the end. best of luck in finding your girl xxx
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reader, anna*belle  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 usually girls (and boys) look at the one they feel attractive to, so if someone keeps looking at you, even though there's no obvious reason for it, it could be a sign they like you.
If you want to get more confident around girls, start talking to more girls, even if you don't have any romantic interest in them, just talk to them because then you get used to being around them, and therefor also more confident talking to them.
Last but not least, confidence comes from the inside, say something to yourself that makes you feel better or do something that you're good at then your confidence will most likely boost.
Hope this helps :-)
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