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What do women mean when the say "It's not the length, it's how you use it"?

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Question - (4 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm not trying to offend any women,but when you say "It's not the size of his tool,it's how he uses it that matters" what do you mean?

I also have heard that being able to perform oral well is also good,what's the best way or a good technique.

I'm just a male teen who is curious.If I offended anyone I didn't mean to.

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A female reader, ams United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

ams agony auntWhen women say its about how you use it they mean - how you work it during sex. If you: move well, use different angles, how fast or slow you move, etc Dont worry it comes with practice. =)

To give good oral I think you need to use both your hand and mouth. You can finger her while licking the clitoris or Lightly sucking on it. You could even mix it up more and while sucking on the clit, swirl your tounge around it. Just play. But listen to her reactions (unless she is shy and doesnt make any noise, if so tell her its hott and encouraging so dont be shy). If she makes noise, or breathes heavily while youre doing one thing, hesitate for a little see if she keeps doing it. If so you might have a good idea/spot.

Hope this helps!!

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A female reader, michele21 United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

michele21 agony auntwell that means if you have a under the average size penis its all about the motions the positions that you do it in its kinda like practice makes perfect nothing you can really teach you just gotta do trial and error babe.....oral sex well im a female and im with a female its all about the softness don't be ruff like right on the clitorous if you don't know where thats at look it up online not hard to find stuff these days about that kinda stuff.....take your time and love it its not going to go anywhere a lot of guys are ruff some girls also like it different ways just ask her she will tell you what feels good and what doesn't to her and you can always tell by her actions and movements....good luck sweety don't know if i helped but all i can do is try

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