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Archived questions from: 24 April, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Am I immature and difficult or just another common misunderstanding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Well, my boyfriend and I are filling in applications for college, and since he's been putting off doing his personal statement for a few weeks now, I offered to do it for him... I looked up some things that might be important to mention and asked ...

I want to thank you all for helping me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I was on here several times in the past not knowing what to do or how to break away from a husband that was so mentally abusive to me that I can now look back and easily say I was being tourchered and the life was being drained from me on a daily ...

Does is feel it or does he not know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - So I posted a question a few days ago and everyone who responded was sooo sweet. So I want to ask something else about the same guy...like I said we have been friends for about 3 months...we decided not to date but that we wanted to have sex, so the ...

Self conscious and wondering about the boy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I,m a 17 year old girl in secondary school. I have never had a boyfriend in my life and i kinda get upset about it so i,m very self concious. But now I really like a guy who is two years below me. He,s 15 he,s really sweet and friendly.Recently we ...

A book about lesbians, but I am clueless

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I'm a writer and I want to write a book about lesbians, but I'm not one, so I need a little help. What are they like? What do they do? Are they anything like we see in movies? Help, please. ...

Are all these obvious signs a sign that he really likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - i really love this boy he lives next door to me. i have already been out with him seceretly and we both loved it but i had to tell people now hes upset and dosent really want to do it again. but he says he might, he allways teases me and he allways ...

My man fancies someone on the big screen

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Should I be concerned that my partner fancies a woman in a film? As in, gets hard over her and finds her asthetically pleasing? I worry he won't find me attractive anymore, and will think of her when we have sex... We've been together three...

Have other women ever fancied a gay man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Hello.I have recently made friends with a gay man,and I feel like i have a crush on him !.he looks alot like the actor,Tom Felton,from the Harry Potter films ,who i also have a crush on.He could be his identical twin !!. I know it's probably no...

Relationship truth opens up world of upset.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - This problem is so hard for me right now, but it doesn't just effect myself. I have been with my partner for nearly 5 years, engadged for 1.25 years and love her so very much. It is a long distance relationship that goes from UK to the US so we dont ...

How does one classify romance/lust verses friends with benefits verses the friend zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - Hello! I wonder if someone would kindly tell me once and for all whether there are two distinct states of relationship i.e. romance/lust vs the friend zone and can one move from one into the other and vice versa. A hybrid version of this is of co...

Wishful thinking or the Real thing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Is it possible to feel a connection to someone you have never met but have conversed with via e-mail, IM and phone for the past 6 months? Has anyone had this happen before? Also, what are the chances upon an initial meeting that there will be no ...

I cannot build the courage to give her my all

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - This is tough without a little history. I met this girl as a friend while online. We talked a few times and I discovered she was from England. I've known her since 2005 and after a couple years talking we starting texting.... taking it slow. On ...

All the signs says yes, but I could be wrong

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - He talked to me first on Myspace and we did that the whole week of spring break. We've been flirting at school like nonstop when we see each other. If we pass and see each other in the hall, we'll keep looking at each other and he tries to kick me. ...

I have the worst luck with men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I have the worst luck with men. All my relationships that mattered has been when I don't look and all of a sudden it comes. I get swept off my feet, fall head over heals for the man, never expecting anything from it all in the beginning. It's hard ...

Big argument prior to moving in together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - Hi, please see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-might-have-to-move-away-with-his.html for more info. Basically, my boyfriend has asked me to move in with him. But... I said yes to moving in with him, I want to and have prepared all my ...