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Age differences: Help and advice

Mum doesn't know I'm engaged. How do I break it to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6955 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a bit of a pickle. I been seeing this really nice guy for nine months and we are now engaged. The problem is I'm 17 and he's 23. We really love each and he never disrespects me in any way. He even agreed to wait til our hon...

How much is too large an age gap?

This question has 47 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I am 28 and my boyfried is 2 1/2 years younger. It's not an issue for us, but is that too big a gap? His friends don't seem to approve although they are my age. Princess...

Should I have a go with a woman of 39?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

25 September 2005 (M) - Hiya, I'm 16 years old and I'm dating a woman of 39. She looks good. We are always having a laugh. She's always there for me and we are great together. We're talking about making a proper go of things. She doesn't have any children, and is...

Can anyone share an experience when they fell for an older man?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6858 days ago

25 September 2005 (M) - I am 47, and have met a girl who is aged 19; I have now become completely smitten with her. I think she fancies me, but cannot be sure, we flirt constantly. I would like to know if anyone else has been in a similar situation, if you were the girl, ...

Why does he send me hot, sexy messages AFTER I leave, instead of when I'm with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6964 days ago

24 September 2005 (F) - I am a 48 year woman that is involved with a 33 year man. We have been friends for a year and just began a sexual relationship when he moved an hour away. He send emails telling me he wants hot, loving sex, massages etc., but when we are together ...

Guys my own age look old... Guys I date don't want to settle down!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6989 days ago

24 September 2005 (F) - I am in my late thirties, very attractive and don't have problems meeting guys but I am still single and it's really getting me down. I'm never attracted to guys my age as they look so old, so I always go out with guys in their late twenties and ...

Isthis 'no-strings' sex relationship just a midlife crisis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6976 days ago

23 September 2005 (F) - Hi I'm a 42 year old woman. I'm not too happy in my relationship with my partner of 15 years. I had an affair early in the year, but ended it as the man was married. Now I've joined a website for married people. Well I met this young man on there bu...

I'm interested in a work colleague, but worried I might still be on the rebound

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6960 days ago

22 September 2005 (M) - I have recently broken up with a long term girlfriend and find myself attracted to a work colleague. I am 34 and she is 23 but we are compatable in many ways; Similar background and upbringing etc. I have known her for 12 months and worked with her ...

No intimacy from my boyfriend in over a year. And he won't discuss it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6992 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He is 16 years older than I am. I love him dearly but im really depressed about our relationship. He has never slept with me and hasn't kissed me in over a year. He says he is happy the way things are. ...

I fancy my teacher and I don't know if I should tell him...

This question has 180 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, I wondered if anyone can help me. I am 16 and I am really friendly with a 32 year old male teacher at my school. He is like a best friend to me he has helped me through some really tough times in my life. I tell him everything, but I ...

We haven't had sex yet and suddenly he doesn't even seem interested in the topic...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6994 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship with this guy for about 8 months. He is 36 and I'm 21, so there is a real age gap. Neither of us have had a lot of luck with relationships, in fact, he has been married before. When we first started dating we would me...

At 15, am I too old for my 13-year-old girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6369 days ago

13 September 2005 (M) - Right. I am 15 and dating a 13 yr old and we have been going out for a while and that. I really like her and she realy likes me but there are a few wee daft guys at the same age of her doing my head in, saying I'm too old, although the people the ...

My boyfriend says he'll call, then he doesn't, says he'll write, but doesn't do that, either!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7002 days ago

11 September 2005 (F) - I need help. The guy I am interested in is 21 and I am 16. He tells me he loves me and I can talk to him for hours but I don't know if he is lying to me because he told me he would me write me but he didnt write or when he tells me he would call me ...

My dream guy is 19, and he lives on the other side of the world!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6826 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - I am 15 years old and fell in love with a guy over the internet who's 19. I trust him and care about him a lot and couldn't imagine my life without him and he is in love with me. I would love to meet up with him but the problem is he lives in Austr...

Our age gap doesn't bother me, but it bothers him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7000 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - My partner and I have been together for five years. I'm 28 and he's 52. For me the age gap is nothing, it's my feelings for him that matter. But the age gap affects my partner. My friend says he'll be drawing his pension in 13 years and I'll...

I can't stop thinking about him, but he's 43!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

5 September 2005 (F) - I am 15 and I am in love with a 43 year old man. I don't really know him that well, but I do know that he is really nice and kind. I find myself thinking about him nearlly all the time. What should I do?...

There are 10 years between us. It feels like too big a gap!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

5 September 2005 (F) - I'm 15 years old and have been involved with a guy, we'll call him Joey, who just turned 25 for the past few months. To me, 10 years is a huge difference and really strange. With any other guy of his age I'd have nothing to do with him. But this...

We split up to clear our heads, but when would it be OK to date again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7008 days ago

5 September 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, My story is that my Girlfriend and I broke up 3 months ago to try and clear our heads over certain issues that affected our relationship. Some 2 months ago, she said that our relationship had come to an end ! Some 2 weeks ago, I fou...

My cousin is in love with a teacher...

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

3 September 2005 (F) - My cousin's in love with her teacher... She's a junior high school student and she's in love with her teacher in the same school. I can't stand about this event. I want to inform this to her mother but if I do, her mother will punish her in no ...