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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I need to be more ambitious in life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

29 November 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - I’ve been at my current workplace for almost 18 years. Im 40. I’ve had a couple of promotions (nothing fancy) and I get to work on different projects which varies and to be honest I admit I’m settled and happy and have no desire to find another job. I was recently... (371 words)

The guy I'm dating is too clingy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

28 November 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for the last few months, we've had sex and he was a virgin. I have a history of sexual abuse which I have told him about and told him sometimes I need a bit of space around sex or I feel pushed and suffocated. He said he understood, every time he's stayed ... (310 words)

My dance partner has been behaving strangely with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

28 November 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who is also my dance partner and we have been dancing together for a year. We're extremely close, and most people tend to think we're in a relationship and we keep having to tell them we're not. He is married and he has a daughter as well. For the past yea... (850 words)

What would you have done in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

26 November 2023 (M)

age 41-50 - A 40 year old married woman, let’s say her name is Mrs J went to her friends Mrs M house for bday get to gather after playing bingo w/ the girls. The people who was suppose to be at Mrs M house was Mrs J, Mrs M, Mrs L(single). The bday girl’s guy friend (just started talking, ... (461 words)

Ex contacted me to wish me a Happy Birthday

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

26 November 2023 (M)

age 22-25 - So about 2 months ago I came here and asked a question regarding about going to therapy about a girl I was romantically involved with leaving me. I come back ask the situation with her has changed entirely that I've had what can only describe as an emotional break down. To t... (451 words)

Controlling & jealous boyfriend and the man I fancy at my local hangout

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

25 November 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend for 6 years now and while we have a great relationship, his very jealousy and controlling …A few months back I broke it off because of his constant jealousy tantrums…I was also going through some personal family issues (my only parent is becoming a jerk ) ... (261 words)

I've fallen for an alcoholic

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

22 November 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I’m at such a loss, I’ve really fallen deeply in love with a man (we’ll call him Larry) who is an alcoholic. I try to tell myself that it isn’t an issue, but deep down I guess it always will be won’t it? I have known Larry for a long time (hes done work on my car over... (328 words)

Am I wrong not allowing my family to stay at my house during the holidays?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

21 November 2023 (M)

age 36-40 - About 20 years ago, I went low contact with my parents and my older brother. My dad favored my brother and expected me to look up to my brother like you would expect to see on TV. My brother ended up thinking it was OK to go into my bedroom and take things without permissi... (521 words)

Partner wants to run off to work party leaving me alone to deal with things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

20 November 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I have been together for 7 years, last year we went to his holiday party and I had a terrible time, this year comes around and he waits until it’s in less than a month to tell me he’s going to travel for it again. On top of it, we have construction work being ... (192 words)

I don't want to raise a lost child

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 357 days ago

19 November 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - I have two children with my ex husband ..we live in the same house….My ex husband still has feeling for me …2 years back I started seeing someone and I become pregnant …..when I informed my ex …he was okay for me to stay in the house and give birth to my child …The child is ... (196 words)

Should I go with my own flow in regard to relationships and friendships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 369 days ago

18 November 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - This is not really romantic relationship advice, but more friendship and life advice I am seeking. I usually come here if I need some real wisdom or advice. I always find myself in situations where I will do much more to hang out with someone or strengthen a friendship, but ... (428 words)

I just want peace not drama

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

17 November 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - This will be a bit long winded so I apologise in advance I (female 36) was contacted a few months ago by my estranged sister (41) on social media. I will admit I felt my anxiety spike when I saw a message from her. We have always had a rocky relationship, we had a ver... (545 words)

Tired of being a bank

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 368 days ago

17 November 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So, I met someone online. We chatted for about 7 months before I went to visit him. He was going to come to see me, but his visa was declined. Before I first met him, he would ask for money. Usually, it is about 300 or 400 monthly. I sent him 3 or 4 times before mee... (261 words)

Women love experienced men, what do novices do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

16 November 2023 (M)

age 30-35 - I've noticed a lot of women love men who are experienced. A lot of them say it's a turn on and a preference. So I have to ask; where does that leave guys with none or limited? You can't gain experience when you're not being given a chance. ... (52 words)

Friends daughter has put me in awkward situation. Do I tell the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

12 November 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - I absolutely regret trying to help a friends daughter as she has behaved so poorly! I’m part of an amateur dramatic club - we put on various theatre productions at our local theatre. My friends daughter (19) is currently studying theater make up and she wanted some work... (356 words)

Should I see a therapist or move out of the area?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

12 November 2023 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a 'partner' who I have been 'with' for 30 years, since I was 26 years old. I am now 56, he is 51. I apologise sincerely for the very long post but I am at my wits end and don't know how to summarise things concisely. When we met I was going through a divorce from... (1549 words)

Roommates are moochers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

7 November 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - My new roommates are mooches and I don't know what to do. It seems no matter where I live, when I live with someone, I end up losing $ I can not afford to lose. Second to last time was my bad: I was in active addiction, let a practical stranger move in who used and I was ... (736 words)

Why can't people just leave my crush alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 379 days ago

6 November 2023 (F)

age 22-25 - Why can't people leave a good, innocent crush alone and let me enjoy it without embarrassing me or ruining it for me or making every one hate me over it? First grade, my friend Sophi dared me to kiss Kevin Junior and no one ever let me forget it even through high school and ... (411 words)

When will family see its not my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 377 days ago

6 November 2023 (F)

age 22-25 - I found out I was pregnant for my daughter Lily last year, when I was 21. I was actually in the process of leaving her dad Anthony when I found out. I met Anthony at a fraternity party at my old college but he wasn't in the fraternity, he just went to parties and bars to sell ... (1154 words)

Why did she randomly change her number

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 379 days ago

5 November 2023 (M) age 41-50 - When I met my so she was seeing a guy just as a hook up. Take note she had been hooking up for 6 years racking up around 600 men. She was dealing with a lot of life trauma and drugs and sex were her distraction from life. Anyway when we first got together and this guy contact... (302 words)

Grandmother of family I'm a nanny for is making things difficullt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 375 days ago

4 November 2023 (F)

age - Hello, I am writing this to get help in terms of my job. I work as a nanny. I have worked in the field for 10 years. I don't expect any job to be perfect. I have had positions that involved a difficult parent, but have always been able to work out a good relationship with my ... (739 words)

Professional versus working relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

3 November 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a female and have a crush on an assistant principal at the school I work with. I have noticed he is good friends with another teacher. While she is married, pregnant, and has a child I am jealous of how he seems to respond and relate to her. I often see them meeting in his ... (294 words)