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Archived questions from: 29 January, 2018 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Three dates in and she does't want to kiss!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2516 days ago

29 January 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - So I met a girl through Tinder and we went out for dinner. I'm 30 and she's 27. We hit it off really well. We talked for nearly 4 hours. She had a pretty bad cough though, and I didn't attempt any sort of physical contact except a brief touch of the hand nearing the end, which ... (576 words)

Cheater?? Just your first instinct, not full evaluation!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1990 days ago

29 January 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok... Just be straight... Being paranoid, or boyfriend totally cheating on me?? He has a friend contact, saved on his phone as "Wifey S" when questioned, said nothing to worry about, just a female friend.... what are your first thought... background is yes, we've had trust is... (77 words)

How can I help my sister who has spiralled into depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2468 days ago

29 January 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - My sister had faced reality and spiraled into depression. I urged her to seek therapy (not just because of this last episode), but in the meantime she needs support. How can I help her more? Some time ago she had a month long fling with a guy she met through work. That's the... (671 words)

Partner has been cheating with my best friend for the past five years.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2491 days ago

29 January 2018 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2009 till now we still together in 2018. The affair ... (233 words)

Could my body after weight loss be turning men off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

29 January 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a little worried about this. So, i used to be quite large, about 84 pounds overweight and lost most of my weight the last few years. I'm thin but not as toned and obviously have a little loose skin on my stomach in particular, especially the lower half. What they class as a ... (300 words)

Why do men keep long term affairs?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

29 January 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do men keep long term affairs? Those that last a year or more? In the end they end up going back to their wives. So I don’t get it. Do they develop feelings for the OP? Do they not love the wives? ... (43 words)

Formerly stingy uncaring husband has suddenly changed. Is it because he will be losing his job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

29 January 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for seven years and my husband has been very stingy with me and my kids (his step kids). We hve one child together. I have complained to him of his lack of involvement in his step kids life but he just ignore. Somehow i have learnt to live with it though i ... (132 words)

Seven Year Relationship - Ended Over Phone Call

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2515 days ago

29 January 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi friends... It's been ages since I posted here, however I'm stuck in yet another dilemma. I live with my boyfriend ('fiance') of 18 years. I never got to date, or try others, since I was 13/14 when we started dating. The first few years were good, but when we moved back to... (1018 words)

Am I justified in feeling hurt or did I do the wrong thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2515 days ago

29 January 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Sorry for the long post, Thankyou to anyone who takes the time to read my story. I am in my late twenties and in a new relationship of 6 months with a man 2 years younger than me. He is the most amazing person I have ever met and I have never felt so connect... (1327 words)

A girl I chatted with online started telling me all of her fetishes. Should I meet her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

29 January 2018 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so a few hours ago I started talking to a girl on tinder. Within minutes she started talking in quite sexually explicit terms, mainly centred around her foot fetish. I admit I was intrigued and played along. The conversation moved onto whatsapp, where she started getting ... (168 words)