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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2018 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My new wife sunbathes topless and I've seen other men looking

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

2 January 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - We are in honeymoon. My wife did topless tanning in a beach with a lot of people. I dont feel so comfortable with this so I discussed with her. She didnt like it and she told me that I am jealous and that she did it only for tanning. I accepted it because I trust her but when ... (93 words)

Boyfriend wants sex on demand, what about what I want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

2 January 2018 (F)

age 51-59 - I love my boyfriend we been together nearly a year but he always wants sex in the morning and I just don't and if I don't have it when he wants he gets into a strop all day and just walks off and if we go out he will just walk miles in front of me like we are not together all ... (178 words)

Uh Oh! My girlfriend and I are related!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

2 January 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I are related, found out after 30 years but are great great grandparents are cousins??..I love her to death and we have a 4 month year old daughter but what should we do?... (36 words)

I want to run away because he is broke and is lazy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

2 January 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend who I live with in his parents house is broke and has bad economical habits. I don’t know what happened both times I’ve had a relationship The boyfriend who I ended up with turned to be a loser. What I liked about my ex is that he was a dj and a lot of people from ... (1070 words)

Is this my life now for ever?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2541 days ago

2 January 2018 (M)

age - I have been living with an ex girlfriend of mine for 4 years. We are both lonely, and don't have families or friends. I sometimes think is this my life now, we are both nearly 60 years old and are going nowhere. I know I am not as happy as I used to be. I used to work but... (133 words)

My boyfriend has dozen of photos of his exes on his profiles

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

2 January 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. My bf has dozens of old pictures with exes on his profiles. He said he cleaned it up but there’s still pics with at least 3 ex girlfriends. He said it’s my job to help him delete things. I’m not sure what to think about this. I said I’m not very comfortable ... (144 words)

I'm worried about the looks I will get if I buy condoms

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

2 January 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi all, Recently, I got together with a guy and well, our relationship has been moving fairly quickly. I absolutely okay with how it's going. So, I was just wondering, he will coming to visit me at my own place (I live near my uni campus), and like we've made up before and st... (240 words)

I believe he has ended things for good this time and I just don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

2 January 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I've been with my partner for 4 years and we have a 21 month old child together. My partner has always been very loving and caring. However, from the second year, I started to emotionally drain him - I would say nasty things and he would trigger me (neve... (839 words)

Where are we going in this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

2 January 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - I keep asking for advice relating to a relationship that started out as an affair at my workplace. It went on as an affair for around 6 months and once i left my abusive ex, we have been seeing each other for another 6 months odd. Its been strange because we have talked and ... (445 words)

I'm extremely hurt that he doesn't believe I'm contributing enough!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

2 January 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am a full time student with the occasional summer internship. I am studying a very rigorous major and while I've been in school for 3 years, it will take at least another two for me to finish my bachelors degree. I am a very good student. I have won scholar... (544 words)

How do I enact new behaviours so my needs are not negated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

2 January 2018 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a question about what to do regarding a specific behaviour by a friendly couple. I am thinking about this in a general context of re-evaluating my own behaviours within friendships (and relationships with men) because a consistent, recurring factor is that I myself allow ... (1501 words)

Help me stand up for myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

2 January 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - This is more of an etiquette question but it involves my two biggest pet peeves: ppl who CONSTANTLY talk to me when I'm reading and ppl who come over uninvited and help themselves to my food/chew up my time. It doesn't matter where I am, I could be reading at a bus stop, a... (263 words)

How do I get over a girl and how do I stop feeling like I constantly need to be in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

2 January 2018 (M)

age 26-29 - In my Sophmore year of high school I thought that I met my dream girl and my future wife. All through out middle school I was very self conscious and i would get nervous around every girl I talked to. Once I met K that all changed for me, she was the first girl that a genuinely ... (293 words)

Why would he trust me in a short time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

2 January 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently started talking to a guy in a dating site. We've been calling and and texting for days now and we talk non stop. He told me that i was the person he was looking for all his life, we talk about everything. He told me that some personal things about him and he told me ... (146 words)

My husband just can't stop grilling me about my ex and it's getting out of control now

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2545 days ago

2 January 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 26 and just got married. I have known him from my school time. And we dated for 1 year untill we got married. He was always curious to know details about my past relationships. I had a boyfriend before him and it lasted for 3 years. My husband always asks questions ... (230 words)

I get an erection during foreplay but lose it during sex. What do I do about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

2 January 2018 (M)

age 26-29 - Every time I try to have sex with my girlfriend i instantly get hard during foreplay but as soon as I am ready to have full sex I lose my erection I don't know what to do I love her very much and want to please her sexually ... (48 words)

What does it mean when guys say that you're different and ambiguous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2545 days ago

2 January 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - Whenever i date a guy, he always tells me that im unfamiliar,rare,different and ambiguous. There are basically 4 guys that i have dated and im not very interested in them anymore, but they keep chasing and one of them told me that im *addictive*. What would make a guy think ... (59 words)

How do I get back on my feet? Can I turn my life around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2545 days ago

2 January 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - how do I get back on my feet - can this be done? Three years ago I hung out with the in crowd and got myself in financial debt - I was making money and also spending money - long story short I got unexpectedly laid off and I had to move back home . I am home and thankful my ... (433 words)