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Archived questions from: 14 April, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I believe I am the one for him. Is his staring at me significant? He likes this other girl who doesn't like him back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) age 22-25 - In school I really like this boy who is my best friend's ex. He always stares at me and told my friend I was pretty but he likes this other girl who doesn't like him back. I really want to talk to him and make him realize that I am the one for him.should I talk to him? Whe... (63 words)

I have my ex husband's last name. My current boyfriend wants me to change back to my maiden name. Should I?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) age 51-59 - My boyfriend does not like that I have kept the surname of my ex husband. It is just easier as my child's last name would be the same as mine. My boyfriend said it does not matter if my child's last name is different from his mother. I am happy with my name as is and fe... (98 words)

Do you think that something else is going on here, what are your thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

14 April 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - So yesterday I was talking with “A” a good male friend of mine from university,and I was talking about myself and that I had a boyfriend(“S” ) for some time now, this and that…., and “A” happens to know my boyfriend from university because they studied the same career( the ... (509 words)

How do guys cope with knowing their Gf's ex was well endowed? Do girls miss it and just settle ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

14 April 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I have always struggled with intimate things as I would be worried about if my partner had been with very well endowed men. I know that statistically most guys will have to deal with that. But how do they? It always seems like the (not so much of an) elephan... (97 words)

Should I message him just one more time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

14 April 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on a date with a guy who i really fancy ( i had already met him before so not a stranger ) He also said i was better than he thought . I left him a message on the dating site we are on saying if he wants to meet up again to contact me, but i deleted my profile so i... (148 words)

Husband comes home drunk with his underwear inside out and stained. Is he cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

14 April 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Yesterday my husband came late from work again. This time it was far worst than the last time ... He works at a restaurant , he is a waiter. Three weeks ago he came home 6 hours later after leaving the workplace, He doesn't use a cellphone since he works there. He didn't know I ... (1137 words)

I love my husband but don't know how long I can keep carrying everything on my back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2776 days ago

14 April 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Not sure if this is really a question or just needing to vent but I could use some advice. I'm just feeling very worthless in my marriage. I feel like he's always mad at me and my kids and nothing we do is ever good enough. Like I go shopping after working all day and I forget ... (374 words)

Was sending that message to my BF the best option? Or did I just stoke the fire more?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2776 days ago

14 April 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and have been friends for years before that. One thing I know about him is that when he gets upset he doesn't want to talk right away so when I know he's upset I'll just leave him alone until he's ready to talk. At that point our ... (584 words)

Why is it a sought after fantasy, that satisfies so many men, to want to watch women hurt and degraded during a porn film?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

14 April 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - With the proliferation and popularity these days of extreme hardcore porn much of which depicts violence towards women , do men still see women as worthwhile individuals or are we just sexual objects for their gratification? Although I understand people will claim porn to be f... (65 words)

Do you think this guy at school might have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) age 18-21 - I like this boy who dated my best friend. We don't talk at all, but my friends send him pictures of us and one day my friend sent a picture of us to him. She asks if he thinks I'm pretty and he responds yeah. He always looks at me at school does this mean he likes me or ... (70 words)

Am I selfish and bad to be feeling so disappointed that he reneged on his original decision to aim to propose to me soon?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

14 April 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have talked about getting married for a while, and a few months back he told me when he'd hope to propose. I was getting very excited. That time-frame hasn't happened yet, however now he is saying he simply cannot afford the ring he was hoping to get me. ... (270 words)