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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I caught my partner in a lie. Now he's verbally abusive and constantly puts me down

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

6 April 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner is so different since I caught him out with a lie. We aren't young (both in our 40's) and there should be no grey areas within our relationship. He has lied to me several times about minor things, lied to at least 5 times about bigger things and one big one about ... (419 words)

My friend is controlling and copies everything I do. Is it kinder to end the friendship than to feel resentful of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

6 April 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a female friend who is very controlling and the more I try to gain space and step back the worse it gets. I have tried really hard not to end the friendship as I know she is lonely but I am beginning to feel actually frightened by her persistence and at times ... (332 words)

My Bf is annoying me with his alarm setting each day. How can I get him to stop this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

6 April 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf drives me crazy with his alarms in the morning - he sets them 40 minutes before i wake up for work on two different devices - each device goes off once every minute for forty minutes so 80 annoying alarms!!! i wake up in a bad mood as i have to nudge him to turn them... (80 words)

Should I be totally honest or shall I leave it as friends and stop thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

6 April 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I have realised I have feelings for a man who I have known for 10 years. We met when I was 17, he was 21, and he asked me out on a date. We only dated for a few weeks before going our own ways and reconciling a few months later as just friends. I consider him my close... (415 words)

What should I tell her? I don't want to meet all her family and friends just yet

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

6 April 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Girlfriend already wants me to meet all her family members (uncles, aunts, cousins, grand parents, etc)? We're dating for only 3 months and she wants me to drive 150 miles to a small town with her to meet the rest of her family. I don't want to go right now, it's too early! ... (61 words)

My Gf attends functions with her friends by herself in order to avoid the risk of losing face. This concerns me. How should I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

6 April 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a problem and I need some sound advice. I'm caucasian and my girlfriend is asian. We both get along great except for one big issue in our lives, and that revolves around how she worries about how some in her community may frown upon interracial dating. Whenever she ... (201 words)

How do we or I take this LDR relationship further? 2

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

6 April 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Warning: VERY LONG on LDR In October, last year, I met this wonderful guy (25/M) on OkCupid of all places. He is literally a diamond. We’ve texted each other every daWy since we exchanged numbers. We met in person in February this year and by our first meet itself I was so smi... (1569 words)

Coping strategies would be appreciated for bad office situation!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

6 April 2017 (F)

age - Not a relationship problem but hoped you guys could give me a bit of advice. I work in a small company of just over 20 staff, most of us working in a large open plan office. One of the women, who is in her 30s, has taken to wearing short SHORT skirts - the lycra type you s... (439 words)

Does this look like a green light?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

6 April 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this man I have had feelings for the past six months. I know I am only infatuated with him, but I can't explain my feelings for him. They are strong and won't go away. I have a feeling he likes me, but I'm not exactly sure. If I post a picture of myself on social ... (198 words)

I prefer staying home to attending his family gatherings! Is this going to be a problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

6 April 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I am married to a wonderful guy and yet I've always been a bit of a loner. We always joke that we love being loners together. He comes from a large happy family and they meet every now and then for a huge meal. I have no issues with his family and I am in good terms... (261 words)

A co-worker gave me his number, is this romantic interest or just a friendly gesture?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

6 April 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy who works in different departments at my new job always make eye contact and we say hi to each other in the passing.Last time he came in on my floor I was working on ,in the kitchen looking for cup,we exchanged pleasantries then I went to clear my tables. While I ... (314 words)

Ovarian cyst ruining our sex life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

6 April 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I've recently been to the doctors with a medical issue and am awaiting a scan to see if I have a cyst on my ovaries. My scan is in 5 weeks. Me and my boyfriend both have high sex drives except due to the potential cyst it's incredibly painful for me at the moment. I was ... (91 words)