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I'm thinking of doing a spell to get my ex back. Am I wasting my money and do they work?

Q.   I'm thinking of doing a spell on my ex to get him back, I'm wondering if they work? I've seen one I can get on the net which will cost around £25. I don't wanna waste my money but has anyone known them to actually work? ...

A.   10 October 2008: Please, c'mon now, get serious. If you send 25 pounds to someone, youl will have acomplished one thing only. The transfer of a portion of wealth from you to the other person. Obviously they do not work.... (read in full...)

Should I tell my husband about my one night drunken affair?

Q.   I feel horrible, before me and my husband got married I slept with someone else but I never told him because I know he would of left me over it, but it seriously a drunken mistake. I told him once before when I cheated and he forgave me. What should ...

A.   5 October 2008: Yes, if you want to end your marriage, go ahead and tell him. You know that will be the result. Confession may be good for the soul, but it doesn't do much for the marriage... (read in full...)

When does "No" actually mean "Yes"?

Q.   Hello! Are there any guys out there who have been turned down by a woman only for this woman to contact them a few months later expressing a change of heart? In other words, have any guys experienced a "When no [eventually] means yes." situation? A...

A.   5 October 2008: Sounds like you have a bit of a crush going. My personal experience...once thay say no, that usually means no. There is the odd time where a girl won't want to go futher because she is in a relationship, finally ends the relationship and then may be ... (read in full...)

I feel there are three people in this marrage: my husband, I, the wife and his ex girlfriend! Am I overreacting?

Q.   I have been married for over a year now. my husband has become distant in our relationship. I recently found a bill with calls and texts to one number on a daily basis, ranging from one up to six times a day for the last 3 months. I confronted my h...

A.   3 May 2008: You are not over reacting. He is financially helping her. Clearly this is more than an emotional affair.... (read in full...)

The woman manager at my husband's work is being rude to me. Is there a real problem?

Q.   I called my husband's cell phone at a time when I knew he was on break to tell him a friend wanted to come over tonight and ask him what time he was getting off work. The manager of his shop where he works answered (a female) and she said "Bra...

A.   3 May 2008: I think she is giving you the strongest hint possible not to call your husband at work. Is she a bitch...yes. Is she rude..yes. Is it fair..no. Perhaps you are a bit of a clingy type, always calling your husband at work? My wife calls ... (read in full...)

Went to a foreign country and slept with 3 male prostitutes. Should I tell my husband?

Q.   I had sex with 3 male prostitutes last week while visiting a foreign country with my female friend. I feel so guilty now, and I want to tell my husband. I know he will most likely leave me though and we have two children, one is just 6 weeks old and ...

A.   2 May 2008: Let me get this right--you had a 5 week old baby, and you went to a foreign country and did all this? If you tell your husband, I absolutely 100% guarantee your relationship with him is over. Your story sounds as if written by an immature... (read in full...)

Getting Married... but it doesn't feel equal, Is it right?

Q.   I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a halfs years. This past December he asked me to marry him. It wasn't that romantic kinda one every girl deserves... just more like well... we should. You want to. Were happy sometimes ...

A.   27 April 2008: Call the wedding off. Your are too young to get married. Don't take my word for it, do your own research and you will realized that the vast majority of marriages with people as young as you are rarely work out. Live life first, then get married it ... (read in full...)

I'm so messed up!!!

Q.   I'm having a dilemma. After several months of a new relationship, while we both talked about long term and our goals of marriage and family, our sex life was decreasing. While my ladys is wonderful in so many areas (whcih is why im with her), theres ...

A.   8 April 2008: I would say end the relationship. If anyone came to me with a list of 25 things I should change, I'd tell her to leave,period. The rest will just be repeating what others have said. She's not attracted to you physically--that does not bode we... (read in full...)

My fiancee who is in college 300 miles away has a "boyfriend"

Q.   My fiancee who is in college 300 miles away has a "boyfriend" Everyone knows me, about our engagement (ring and all) and about her "boyfriend". Even though she has told me they have no sex, she does spend nights with him in his bed (kissing bare ...

A.   6 April 2008: Friend, you are being dumped, but you just don't know it. Let's face facts--how happy would she be if you spent your evenings in bed with a woman, bare breasted or not? Just as I figured--she would not tolerate it. Neither should you. Time to ... (read in full...)

Why is he looking at my pics online when we've been apart 3 years?

Q.   I was speaking to my ex-ex boyfriend yesterday and he said he found a picture of me online. Was taken with some people I met while travelling last year and I didn't know it was there. I didn't even know how to look it up and he told me what I needed ...

A.   6 April 2008: He is curious or he misses you is the answer. Why would that creep you out? People look up people all the time, mostly just out of curiosity.... (read in full...)

Will we leave a tell-tale mess in the hotel sheets?

Q.   me and my girlfriend are ready to start having sex but we don't have any privacy . we've decided to go to a hotel next w/end so we can start to know our bodies and learn what to do. I'll wear a condom but we're wondering if there'll be any mess...

A.   6 April 2008: Doubt you have anything to worry about, but one solution is to put a towel on the bed (beneath her), that way the towel may get a little messed up, but you could always rinse it off, etc... (read in full...)

Is it cheating to masterbate over pictures of your wife's sisters?

Q.   Is it cheating because I masturbate over pictures of my wife's two sisters?...

A.   5 April 2008: You are joking, right? If you have to ask a question like this, then you already know the answer. What you are doing is immature, disrespectful and worrying.... (read in full...)

Should I leave her alone now she has a guy??

Q.   Dear cupid, I am a 16 (going 17 in march) and recently have been wanting to ask this girl out, but never had the guts to do so. Now i find out that she has a man and feel a bit sad. is it normal for me to want this girl and should i tell her what ...

A.   4 February 2008: Just ask her out. Some people have a relationship on the go that is about to end, they just have not had the strength to end it. Even if she says no, she will know you are interested and she may contact you a little ways down the road and change ... (read in full...)

Is it too much to ask for a phone call everyday in a long distance relationship?

Q.   Is it too much to ask for a phone call everyday in a long distance relationship? This is my second long distance relationship where my other decides to not call or return calls for 4 days at a time, when we typically talk daily. I ended the first ...

A.   4 February 2008: Yes, I think it is too much to ask for. I have been in LD relationship very sucessfully, and a phone call per day is not required. You will be viewed as clingy if you insist on that.... (read in full...)

We fight every single day because he doesn't understand me...but our familes are excited about us getting engaged.

Q.   hi everyone... Well... my problem is similar to many girls here. I've been goin out wih this guy since almost 7 yrs now. Both our families knows all bout it infact his parents talked to my parents and its all good. We mite get engaged very soon but...

A.   3 February 2008: I am not sure how you define love, but I can tell you it does not include arguing every day. Love includes compatability, maturity, getting along, being in agreement in most things. You are deceiving yourself if you think you are in love and... (read in full...)

Shocked and hurt that he suggested, I clear off my huge debt!

Q.   I have been with my partner for a year and just recently we bought a home together. I came to the relationship with £7000 debt on my credit card and he agreed that this should go on our mortgage as the interest rate was cheaper. We were talking abou ...

A.   27 January 2008: I think you are over reacting. Without knowing the size of your morgtgage, it is hard to say, but if your 7,000 is a significant portion of the mortgage, I could see his point. A second question is did the 7,000 conttribute anything in the way of ... (read in full...)

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