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writes: Dear cupid,I am a 16 (going 17 in march) and recently have been wanting to ask this girl out, but never had the guts to do so.Now i find out that she has a man and feel a bit sad. is it normal for me to want this girl and should i tell her what i think of her and that i wanted to ask her out or should i just leave her alone?Also she thinks im one of the decent looking boy in our class, was this a sign?Please help me as im in a dilema Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (4 February 2008):
 She has a b/f does not mean that you cannot go for it. It does not matter for she will accept your wooing too.The b/f thingy is not the final one. If you are better, she may dump him and choose you.
A girl's heart is like the moon , there is a different picture every time you look inside. LOL!
If you like her, why do you want to move away? Treat her in a special way and she will feel it.
You don't have to say I love you , your heart is on your sleeve and everyone can see it .
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reader, Ziggy Z  +, writes (4 February 2008):
Just ask her out. Some people have a relationship on the go that is about to end, they just have not had the strength to end it. Even if she says no, she will know you are interested and she may contact you a little ways down the road and change here mind.
If you never ask, you will be kicking yourself for years with regret.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008): I want to know this too! Something very similar has happened to me too. In my case, she knows I love her; but she already has a guy. Should I leave her alone?
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reader, Unknown_53 +, writes (3 February 2008):
Unknown_53 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am friend with her, i mean we talk in class , we chat on msn and say hi to each other whenever we see each other...but i just strted liking her recently all of a sudden and i do not love her llike laura 1318 said
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008): I think you would be best to be a friend to her and respect her other boyfriend....it probably will run its course soon enough, at this age, everyone is going through growing pains and relationships start and end all of the time....bide your time and it will be your turn to ask her out....if you want something, you have to strike when the opportunity arises, now you need to wait until that opportunity presents itself again or you will be seen as disrespectful, a leach and possibly even a jerk.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (3 February 2008):
You need to be friends with her first and get to know more of her. You cannot be a silent admirer and love her from a distant.
If you like her, go talk to her and communicate. You cannot even manage the friend phase , you want to jump to the feeling phase.
Learn to walk first before you want to run.
If you want to win her attentions , you need to be confident and be daring or brave. Feign heart wins no fair lady.
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reader, Unknown_53 +, writes (3 February 2008):
Unknown_53 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalso to add to this is that i sit next to her in the class, should i move away from her
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