A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I feel horrible, before me and my husband got married I slept with someone else but I never told him because I know he would of left me over it, but it seriously a drunken mistake. I told him once before when I cheated and he forgave me. What should I do? Do I tell him now that we our married? Or do I keep it totally to myself because i was young and drunk?
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reader, Ziggy Z +, writes (5 October 2008):
Yes, if you want to end your marriage, go ahead and tell him. You know that will be the result. Confession may be good for the soul, but it doesn't do much for the marriage
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (4 October 2008):
 why did you marry so young when inside you knew you weren't ready? I think you still want to have fun and not commit to one person. However, what's done is done. you can't turn back time. What you can do is focus on your marriage and your husband. If you truly are remorseful and sorry and vow to never do it again, then i think you should keep your mouth shut and learn from it.
However, if you find that you will continue to cheat on him. Drunk or not. I feel he deserves the right to know that his wife is a cheater that does not love him. Set him free so he can be with someone that treats him right. Don't be selfish in keeping him and going out and having your cake too. that is wrong.
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