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writes:I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a halfs years. This past December he asked me to marry him. It wasn't that romantic kinda one every girl deserves... just more like well... we should. You want to. Were happy sometimes but not most of the time. He does what he wants and kinda what I want when its okay for him. We live about 30 yards from his parents and thats awful. Mine live about 20 30 minutes. He never goes to see them. Unless I beg. Hes not even helping me with the wedding. Just gets upset about some of the choices I make. I am very confused I don't know what to do. I love him very much, but it doesn't feel equal. I have a month and half till the wedding what should I do? Thank You All.
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reader, previasc96 +, writes (27 April 2008):
Your boyfriend has to show that he WANTS to get married. The feeling must be equally strong between the to of you. If one person is going into this halft heartedly, it there might be resentment afterward.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): Hi Hunny
I got married at 19 and I wish Id waited untill I was older, If you are not sure dont go through with it hunny, You can love each other and be together. But it sounds to me that you are putting more into this and other parts of your life with your b/f. He should be excited if he asked you and its not a matter of fact thing its something that will change your life so think what you really want sweetheart before its to late TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Ziggy Z +, writes (27 April 2008):
Call the wedding off. Your are too young to get married. Don't take my word for it, do your own research and you will realized that the vast majority of marriages with people as young as you are rarely work out. Live life first, then get married it you want to.
You are not in love with the guy...you already know that is true, so why go through with a farce?
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