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Is it illegal for a child to have child porn on their computer, if it is of their friends or partners in the same age group?

Q.   I am aware that child porn is illegal, but I am currently in highschool, and many of my friends, all of which are under 18, exchange sexually explicit photos. None of these pictures are put on the web, or etc. But they exchange them to each other ...

A.   17 September 2007: i wouldnt get involved its a tricky situation. obviously young children is and is sick but your agegroup? its tricky i would stay well clear! x... (read in full...)

I like older guys. What should I do?

Q.   Should I give one of my guy friends a chance? Earlier today I recieved a call from a friend of mine asking if i liked anyone at school. I said no. I'm into older guys in their 20's most of the time, and she knows that. (I'm 17, 18 in Feb) Appar...

A.   17 September 2007: i love older guys too.there more mature and fun!but enough about me!it does sound like its not your choice.ok this mr x has a crush on you and he may be a little heartbroken if you turned him down and just stayed mates but hell fell a lot worse if ... (read in full...)

And old crush likes me now but I'm with another guy! What should I do?

Q.   i have been going out with my boyfriend now for over a month but before i went out with him I really liked this other boy. Now that im goin out with my boyfriend he has broken up wth his girlfriend and says he likes me. i dont kno what to do. i ...

A.   17 September 2007: im not being funny but he has broke up with his girlfriend and now he claims he wants you!hes sounds like hes on the rebound i don't mean to sound harsh but if he wanted you he would have done something about it by now.before he got involved you ... (read in full...)

Do I hold out for this bloke that could make me really happy if he eventually split up with his lass, or leave it now?

Q.   Ive fancied someone from work since i started there 3 years ago, but i new he had a girlfriend, so stayed well clear. about 2 yrs ago he came onto me at an xmas party but i thought he was just drunk and laughed it off, and weve just been our no...

A.   17 September 2007: the way i see it and excuse me for being harsh the only one involved that is going to get hurt is his girlfriend shes the innocent one!and i know you have said if it was flipped round it wouldn't be nice so think of how his girlfriend thinks he ... (read in full...)

I don't know if me cheating means he isn't the one, or it was just a manifestation of my committment fears mixed with alcohol?

Q.   I am 22 and have been in a relationship for the past 4 years with John. he is my first and only boyfriend. we've started talking about marriage and kids. sometimes i get freaked out about being so young, not having 'played the field' and not being ...

A.   17 September 2007: sound to me that he isn't the one.if you found out he had cheated on you would you stick by him? ok so you say he will never find out but it'll be on your mind for the rest of your life unless you come clean or ditch him i may sound a little hars... (read in full...)

My parents seem a little homophobic and I'm concerned what they'd say about my sexual orientation.

Q.   hi im a 17 year old bisexual. Im sick of lyin to my parents about where im goin when im goin to gay bars, and always deny myself being gay. i think im ready to come out, but dont know how. i think they seem a little homophobic and they may hate me. ...

A.   17 September 2007: i have a lot ov gay and bisexual friends most who are 16 17 too.they have all told there parents friends;people who are important to them.they told me that the best choice they ever made was to come out and personally I think you should too.you have ... (read in full...)

Why do I keep having these intimate dreams about my sister's boyfriend?

Q.   My sister has been with her partner for just going on 5 years and the past 2 nights I've had a dream that we (myself and her boyfriend) have been left together and he has came onto me and we go all the way. I've never found him attractive before as ...

A.   15 September 2007: well who doesnt find a younger man attractive. but seriously if your single maybe your just longing for someone yourself and as hes your sisters boyfriend and you must see him alot then you could just be thinking of him because you see him alot he ... (read in full...)

Why is the boy I love so nasty to me???

Q.   The lad I really love and have done things with in the past and have been out with before but he says he doesn't fancy me anymore. He has been off with me today, we were out with a lad who fancies me and I want the lad I love 2 want me back and ...

A.   15 September 2007: maybe after hearing he has a girlfriend wheather he likes her or not tells me you should move on.ok i understand you love him but they say if you truly love somebody and they dont love you,you should let them go.maybe you need to find the curage to ... (read in full...)

Please help me I dunno what to do and whom to believe......

Q.   I'm 18 and living in California. I met my boyfriend 19 years of age online and also through mutual friends.. he lives in Florida which is 23,000 miles away and still I have not yet met him in person... when we first started talking on the phone his ...

A.   15 September 2007: first you shudnt be his girlfriend if youve never met him in person you dont no him propely he could turn out to be a nutter.i met someone threw the internet and he made all the promises just like yours and gess what there never happened to me ither ... (read in full...)

He says "your my girlfriend, not my mother". Should I be so concerned with his life choices?

Q.   Hey its me again, about the should I chuck him or wait for a miracle. I've got another question, my boyfriend wants to do more pot which is completely against my morals. He has plans to do it this weekend. I want to use the old "three strikes your ...

A.   15 September 2007: my advice(dont take it if you dont want to) you no its against your morals no three strikes kick him out now.hes no good by the sound of things hes not the right person for you.ditch him and get a new man in your life who goes by the same rules as... (read in full...)

I take it from his actions he doesn't love me any more?

Q.   My guy broke up with me a few weeks back, it's so hard to get over him.. he doesn't even want to be friends.. says it's for the best.. I really want to get back with him.. I've emailed him telling him how I feel but he just doesn't reply:( I don't ...

A.   15 September 2007: you shoudnt be asking yourself what you should do to get back with him,the question you should be asking your self is how to move on.ok i understand you love him and felings cant be just switched of like that but if he doesn't love you no more or ... (read in full...)

Is my fiance cheap? He makes 2800 a month and spend 2000 on my ring.

Q.   Is my fiance cheap? He makes 2800 a month and spend 2000 on my ring....

A.   15 September 2007: have you got your prioritys right here love.first he loves you and thats the best gift anyone could have second somepeople don't even get a ring a that price think of someone who only gets a £100 ring then you'll have something to complain about.ok ... (read in full...)

We kiss sometimes, but it hurts to know I'm just a "friend" now. Should I walk away?

Q.   My bf( we are both 17!) of 9 months and I broke up just under 3 months ago. He said he didnt want a relationship anymore( things were gettin too serious) So, obviously broke up with him cause i knew he wasnt happy and we kept on arguing over...

A.   13 September 2007: of course you still have feelings for him after all you have had a relationship with him and cared about him,however he said it was getting too serious and didn't want any more out of the relationship.you have to understand that some men are scared ... (read in full...)

I'm divorcing my husband and dating his brother. How can avoid the guilt?

Q.   My husband and I are going thru a divorce and I have started dating his brother there is alot of guilt involved and I want to know if there is any way to help us all not feel guilty?...

A.   13 September 2007: Why are you feeling guilty ok he’s you soon to be ex husbands brother but that’s exactly it soon to be ex! The best thing you could do is cool it of for a while with his brother I mean don’t break up just explain you need to wait a while. Because ... (read in full...)

HELP!

Q.   HI, I was hoping someone could give me some advuce. Me and my partner have been together for 4 years and have a beautiful son, I really love him but I feel like he doesn't love me anymore. We were very very close but I feel like I can't talk to ...

A.   13 September 2007: First its great that you’ve already lost weight and that you should be proud of. Try telling him how you feel the thing is having a baby does put your sex life on hold or doesn’t feel the same the best advice I can give you is keep on your diet and ... (read in full...)

Please help! I'm 11 and want to know how to approach hugging and kissing my girlfriend

Q.   Hi.im 11 and i've been going out with my girl for 3 weeks.i dont know how to hug/kiss my girlfriend.i also dont know how to tell her i love her....

A.   13 September 2007: firstly three weeks you cant love someone that quick the sad reality is she could turn out to be a nutter! however you do need to get to know her! you could: chat on msn or go to the cinima or bowling or why not spend time tying out a game!you eac... (read in full...)

Please help! I'm 11 and want to know how to approach hugging and kissing my girlfriend

Q.   Hi.im 11 and i've been going out with my girl for 3 weeks.i dont know how to hug/kiss my girlfriend.i also dont know how to tell her i love her....

A.   13 September 2007: firstly three weeks you cant love someone that quick the sad reality is she could turn out to be a nutter! however you do need to get to know her! you could: chat on msn or go to the cinima or bowling or why not spend time tying out a game!you eac... (read in full...)

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