I've just found out she had a threesome and this is eating away at me!
Q. I really need some help here. Me and my girlfriend broke up a couple months ago. I had sex with one girl, shortly after the relationship ended and again two weeks later. She found out about both as i admided to it. She then procieded to have sex ...
A. 17 July 2009: As Ross said to Rachel on Friends - you're on a break! Maybe ask her to have a threesome with the girl you slept with? Stop playing through your mind what she did - she probably had sex with other guys before you too, right? Although it was n... (read in full...)
What's worse ? being a slut or being 40 years old virgin ?
Q. What is better either having sex with many people or keep virginity until you're way too old ? What do you think ?...
A. 10 July 2009: Neither is "better". Do what what is right for you, but always treat yourself and your sexual partners with respect. Sex is usually better when there is caring and an emotional connection. If you want to remain a virgin, that's fine too (what is ... (read in full...)
Married for 6 weeks and think I made a big mistake!
Q. Please help me, I have been married for 6 weeks now and feel that I have made a huge mistake. Its not that I no longer love my husband, as I do more than anything, but the soul destroying problem is that he refuses to have sex with me. We have not ...
A. 10 July 2009: If you were happy very infrequent sex, things would be fine - but that's not your case, not what you want. What concerns me more is you say your husband behaves the same way when you try to talk to him and initiate sex - which sounds like he's ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with another girl - but I know my family expects me to marry a Muslim man! What do we do?
Q. I've got myself in a right mess and don't know what to do. Sorry if this is so long.. I'm female,19 and muslim. My family are religious, and i do believe in some aspects of my faith but i don't really go to mosque much and my parents don't pr...
A. 8 July 2009: I'm a gay man in Canada, but I'm not Muslim, although I worked with Muslim companies and visited Muslim countries, so I have an idea of what is expected culturally based on the questions I was always, always asked - "are you married?" "how many ... (read in full...)
Why I am getting depression now when I enjoy me life!
Q. Up to the age of 19 i had no confidence. I was embarrassed about everything and i hated the way i looked and my lack of self worth. i was not enjoying my life. I decided this had to stop and recently i have turned my life around. I really enjoy m...
A. 6 July 2009: Hello,
It's normal to feel "blue" every now and then, even if your life is going well. I think it's not realistic to expect to be "up" all the time - in fact, I'd say that's not healthy either! Life is full of ups and downs, and while you say your... (read in full...)
Surely he has done wrong to mebut why do I think of him?
Q. how do i get over the past and fight back . when i was 13 years old i ha megga problems at school / home i had megga problems . at school i didnt have many true friends - even the ones i had used me and i was also badly bullyed . i wated t...
A. 6 July 2009: Hello, Life is complicated unfortunately at times and hard to understand. I'm sorry you have been hurt by what happened. First of all, it doesn't matter what your classmate's history was - he wrong to touch if you didn't want him to touch you... (read in full...)
Is it okay for a 26 year old to fall for someone who is 16?
Q. I'm a 26 year old female and I am falling for a 16 year old male. I don't know if this is ok or not. I feel so lost and torn. I want to tell him that I love him and I think about him all the time, but I'm afraid to. I don't want him to feel like I'm ...
A. 6 July 2009: Let's take the law out of the picture then.
You say he's innocent and you are worried about him and his feelings. You two have already shared very intimate times together which has already changed him - why is telling him you love him any differen... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend have an STD?
Q. My boyfriend has white bumps that lead to his penis. They stop at his penis and don't go any further then that. It is very red around that area. Although he has this, I don't have it? I have inspected myself and so has he. So I'm very confused...
A. 6 July 2009: BTW - rashes caused by HIV/AIDS uaully only occur after a person has had HIV for years and years (over 10 yrs let's say) -and the immune system is worn down I highly, highly doubt that would be the cause. And a rash from HIV would not be localized ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend have an STD?
Q. My boyfriend has white bumps that lead to his penis. They stop at his penis and don't go any further then that. It is very red around that area. Although he has this, I don't have it? I have inspected myself and so has he. So I'm very confused...
A. 6 July 2009: I'd suggest the two of you make the doctor's appointment and see what's going on. I say this next part bc you're young - please remember to wash your hands after examining the rash - if it's, for example, HPV (the virus that causes genital warts) ... (read in full...)
He doesn't ever get jealous -- does he really care?
Q. hey , well i've been seen this guy for a year now and i've noticed that he's not jealous at all , he sees me talking to guys all the time and am a very good looking girl and he doesnt seem to care at all if guys look at me or flirt with me and it ...
A. 6 July 2009: It could be mean that he trusts you completely - and that is good thing - no, it's a great thing! That's what I strive for in my relationships. He could just be confident he has a great girl whom he trusts - he might be thinking "let the other guys ... (read in full...)
Rash under my foreskin?
Q. Last night I noticed the head of my uncircumcised penis was a bit read at the top under the foreskin. It sort of looks like a rash. Any idea what this could be and should I be worried? It isn't itchy or even uncomfortable....
A. 6 July 2009: Could be just some friction, could be natural, could be something else. I'm uncircumsized, noticed what I thought was a rash, and it's just the natural colouring of my penis under there - but I did go to the doctor to check it out.
If you put pres... (read in full...)
Is it possible that I have some kind of mental illness?!
Q. Is it possible I have an undiagnosed mental illness? I never quite feel there, everything's a blur, it's like I'm watching through the eyes of a robot. I really don't know how to explain any of this. And I don't know how to go about it. I can't go...
A. 6 July 2009: PS - Also you are 16 or 17 - I hope you can talk to your parents about this as well.... (read in full...)
Is it okay for a 26 year old to fall for someone who is 16?
Q. I'm a 26 year old female and I am falling for a 16 year old male. I don't know if this is ok or not. I feel so lost and torn. I want to tell him that I love him and I think about him all the time, but I'm afraid to. I don't want him to feel like I'm ...
A. 6 July 2009: Check out http://www.parl.gc.ca/information/library/PRBpubs/prb993-e.htm#CURRENT LAW(txt)
for the current laws in Canada. From what I read, whether or not you are in a position of any kind of authority DOES make a difference, and you did not answ... (read in full...)
How can I stay with someone who doesn't want me?
Q. My marriage is very sad. My husband lost interest in sex. Nobody knows for sure why. He is healthy. His hormons are fine. How can I stay with someone ,who I don't know why but does not want me? When he is trying to have sex, very seldom, I feel ,he...
A. 6 July 2009: If you lost interest in sex as well, then there would be no problem you guys would still be happy. But you're in different places sexually, and that's the problem. If you still love him, and want to stay with him (you dont mention how you two feel ... (read in full...)
I'm I a slut? How can I forget!
Q. If I look at this on the funny side I'd say me and my boyfriend have a horn problem.. But on the not so funny side - I feel like a slut. Me and my boyfriend have done things in places we really shouldn't have. I regret it afterwards and n...
A. 6 July 2009: You're with your boyfriend - doesn't make you a slut. Figure out why you're being so hard on yourself - what else is going on?
Not sure what you mean by "places you shouldn't have". Do you mean on an airplane, at work, in a church - or during your... (read in full...)
I cheated on her but I still miss her, she even misses me too...
Q. Hello, Summing it up and asking for words of wisdom; was in an 18 year relationship- I cheated. I left and she found someone right away and they live together now. We have had lots of "conversations." Not too long ago, she contacted me and said...
A. 6 July 2009: Tell her what you wrote here! You seem honest and heartfelt - and if I can feel that, then she, who actually knows you, should as well. You may not get the answer you want, be prepared, but until you tell her... you will never know.
I suggest ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that I have some kind of mental illness?!
Q. Is it possible I have an undiagnosed mental illness? I never quite feel there, everything's a blur, it's like I'm watching through the eyes of a robot. I really don't know how to explain any of this. And I don't know how to go about it. I can't go...
A. 6 July 2009: Hello - Please go to a doctor you trust, who has experience with mental illnesses, and tell them what you said here. I'm a person who has chronic depression and anxiety - depression is considered "chronic" if it last for 2 weeks of more in a row. ... (read in full...)
I have a big crush on him! Should I let him know?
Q. (ill try to make it as short as possible)okay so heres the dealio....i had this MAD crush on this guy since last year and 3 weekes ago he friended me on facebook and he and i started chatting on facebook chat a lot that weekend and after a couple ...
A. 6 July 2009: No, no, no don't ask him if he asked out another girl! It's really none of your business, and unfortunately sometimes Facebook lets you have knowledge of things that maybe you shouldn't. Don't tell him you have a crush online (chances are he will ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend have an STD?
Q. My boyfriend has white bumps that lead to his penis. They stop at his penis and don't go any further then that. It is very red around that area. Although he has this, I don't have it? I have inspected myself and so has he. So I'm very confused...
A. 6 July 2009: Bumps that "lead to the penis" - where exactly is that? Could be natural and harmless, could be a fungus, could be a skin condition of some kind, could be warts, could be this could be that...
Doesn't sound like herpes as someone mentioned - herp... (read in full...)
Is it okay for a 26 year old to fall for someone who is 16?
Q. I'm a 26 year old female and I am falling for a 16 year old male. I don't know if this is ok or not. I feel so lost and torn. I want to tell him that I love him and I think about him all the time, but I'm afraid to. I don't want him to feel like I'm ...
A. 6 July 2009: As I understand the law here in Canada, if someone between 14-18 can give consent for sexual activity with someone over 18 unless the "adult" is in some position of authority over the minor. That means - parent, teacher, babysitter, guardian, ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay???
Q. Is my boyfriend gay? I have questioned my boyfriend's sexuality a bit in our relationship. He is not exactly metrosexual, but he has some interesting tendancies. He is always concerned about his appearance, although he doesn't know the difference ...
A. 5 July 2009: Hello - I'm a gay man with a little experience under my belt with bi men, so here's a few pointers:
- A man who has sex with men is not necessarily gay.
- Being clean does not make you gay. My brother, who is straight as an arrow, is a much bet... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay???
Q. Is my boyfriend gay? I have questioned my boyfriend's sexuality a bit in our relationship. He is not exactly metrosexual, but he has some interesting tendancies. He is always concerned about his appearance, although he doesn't know the difference ...
A. 5 July 2009: Hello - I'm a gay man with a little experience under my belt with bi men, so here's a few pointers:
- A man who has sex with men is not necessarily gay.
- Being clean does not make you gay. My brother, who is straight as an arrow, is a much bet... (read in full...)
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