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writes:If I look at this on the funny side I'd say me and my boyfriend have a horn problem..But on the not so funny side - I feel like a slut.Me and my boyfriend have done things in places we really shouldn't have. I regret it afterwards and now it's really getting to me. Should I feel like a slut?How can I forget about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2012): Sex is wonderful between people who love each other, and express it, even aggressively and adventurously (...I'd say especially!!). You shouldn't feel guilty about it at all. I'd say something different if you were in an uncommited relationship(s) but you should express your sexuality in a way that feels pleasurable with your partner -- enjoy. Love and sex are great. Sex without love might be fun for a night but I think it's damaging particularly in the long run for women mainly, in my view.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (6 July 2009):
 If you're having sex with only one guy, not fifty... then how does that make you a slut?
Just use protection!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): I think you have the definition of slut mixed up with adventurous. A slut is someone who has sex with many people. If you are only having sex with your boyfriend, that doesn't qualify you as a slut. Have fun, be careful and don't be pressured to do anything you don't want to do. If he loves you, he will take no for an answer.
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reader, yodastud  +, writes (6 July 2009):
You're with your boyfriend - doesn't make you a slut. Figure out why you're being so hard on yourself - what else is going on?
Not sure what you mean by "places you shouldn't have". Do you mean on an airplane, at work, in a church - or during your mother's funeral (I'd call the last one a problem). Do you feel you're disrespecting the place your having sex - or disrespecting yourself?
No answers here really - you have to figure out what exactly is upsetting and bothering you about what your doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): ur not a slut. forget about it. everyone does it some place they feel insecure about afterwards and think it was wrong, but ur just curious and adventurous in ur lifee. so no worries :]
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reader, DLover +, writes (5 July 2009):
Relax, you're not a slut, you're just adventurous and that's perfect !
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): You are not a slut. You are with your regular boyfriend not a stranger. Be careful you don`t get caught or risk being seen by minors.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): omg you are not a slut! there's nothing wrong with wanting to experiment in different places. If you're feeling bad afterwards then you're probably choosing the wrong places, obviously you need to be careful where you go but there's no reason to feel like it's a problem. Lots of people do it! x
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