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writes:(ill try to make it as short as possible)okay so heres the dealio....i had this MAD crush on this guy since last year and 3 weekes ago he friended me on facebook and he and i started chatting on facebook chat a lot that weekend and after a couple days after he just stopped talking to me on fb chat and i didn't wanna seem annoying so i didn't talk to him and i was so sure he liked me by the way he talked to me on fb chat but then i heard form this girl that he asked out this girl he is in love with and she rejected him and then that same day he changed his fb status to'I aint gonna give up and thats a promise'.??!!i was so heart broken when i read that cuz that lead me to think he really did ask another girl out and now i see him online on fb everyday and i wanna tell him i like him but i dunno im just so confused as to what to do becasue im 16 and he is my first real crush and he is the nicest guy in my skewl and all the other guys i know are loserz and i tired so hard to get over him but its so hard. :(.....HELP??!!
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reader, yodastud +, writes (6 July 2009):
No, no, no don't ask him if he asked out another girl! It's really none of your business, and unfortunately sometimes Facebook lets you have knowledge of things that maybe you shouldn't. Don't tell him you have a crush online (chances are he will run). Facebook is not the real world. If you like him, try to get know him in person at school if possible. Say hi, be friendly, before going further - see how he responds then. You don't really know what's he thinking, why he stopped chatting with you online (maybe he didn't want to lead you on while hid mind was on the other girl - and that's fair).
Do you take any classes together, have things in common? And stay cool - you'll be OK with or without him - remember that. Confidence is very attractive.
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reader, ovs300  +, writes (6 July 2009):
Hey
I had a similar problem and I thought u might wanna hear the
'male perspective'. If the guy has just been rejected by another girl I would not tell him that u have a crush on him yet. However I know that guys like it when girls talk to them so chat with him for a while. A lot of guys feel pressured to ask girls out so if u like him u should ask him. It is quite nice for a guy to be told that a girls likes him. So what have u got to lose , The worst that can happen is he will turn u down. In my opinion u should go for it.
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reader, JOdieKinsZ. +, writes (5 July 2009):
Girl! Get a hold of yourself!
Life is full of people like him, they lead you one way, when they are really taking the seperate turning. I understand you are upset, but don't you dare let him know you are upset.. Say to this boy I heard you asked out (whatever her name is) and see how he reacts to this.. But stay cool! Don't let him know your bothered, because you do and he has got you right where he wants you, and don't let this crush take over you, take it slow and wait for the right time to tell him you like him... And NO! I don't mean now, he's just been rejected give him space! Hope it works out for you. Jodie, x
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