How do I win her back? I broke up with her and want her back but she's having none of it and says I'm too late.
Q. recently dumped my girlfriend who I'd been going out for nearly for no real reason. I was not in contact with her again until 3 weeks later when I called her to see how she was getting on. She said she was good and had not missed me. after our brief ...
A. 17 February 2007: Continue to be her friend, but just friends. Don't try to push her into anything or keep telling her how much you love her. If she loved you once, she may fall in love with you again, but you're gonna have to start from square 1. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Why am I so sensitive sometimes?
Q. hey! im 16 and i have a boyfriend that i have been wiv for a little less than 2 months. its all going really well and everything. but the wierd thing is that sometimes when i am with him, if he says a comment that offends me - such as yesterda...
A. 17 February 2007: When someone we love tells us that they don't like something about us, it hurts more than if it was just a friend or stranger. If he's saying this stuff jokingly, let him know that it hurts your feelings. However, if he is intentionally insulting ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is mentally and sometimes physically abusive to me and I don't know what to do! Help!!!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together going on four years. We have a two year old daughter together. We have broken up 3 times in the last year, because I kicked him out. I just feel fed up with him he is mentally and sometimes physically abusive. ...
A. 16 February 2007: First thing you should do is find help at a women's abuse shelter. There are social workers there who can guide you through the whole process of getting away from him.
Also, PLEASE know that this is one of the worst situations your daughter... (read in full...)
He is making me feel guilty for not loving him!!
Q. Why is my husband blaming me for not loving him anymore?, and accusing me of cheating on him (im not). We have been together for 10yrs he has cheated on me , lied about numbers on his phone, looked at other women on the net and commented on their...
A. 16 February 2007: He spent the whole marriage hurting you, yet you don't want to hurt him by leaving him when you're not even in love with him anymore? Girl, he is using you. He's trying to make all the bad things that he's done your fault, and you're falling for it. ... (read in full...)
How can I win my boyfriend back again?
Q. I want my ex-boyfriend back. I'm 15 hes' 16. We made plans to stay together forever. He cheated on me first then 4 mths later I did the same to him. His dad doesn't like me. Now he's dating one of my friends. My heart is broken real bad. I've been ...
A. 16 February 2007: Almost everyone going into a relationship plans on staying together forever. Unfortunately, being so young, you will have many more heartbreaks to come. You think you'll never get over it, but you will. Right now, I'd suggest just being friends, or ... (read in full...)
Why do nice guys always finish last?
Q. Why do nice guys finish last? If so, why? I never appreciated why women go for guys who treat them bad....
A. 16 February 2007: 1. Some girls have such low esteem that they don't feel they deserve any better.
2. Some are simply afraid to leave the relationship from either fear of retaliation or fear of starting new (believing something is better than nothing).
3. And ... (read in full...)
What are a realistic set of duties in a male/female relationship? I don't want to get overbearing.
Q. I read through one other post that you get nervous when get a sense of duty towards someone but don't know exactly what you should be doing, especially in male-female relationship. I believe this is exactly what is getting on to my nerves right now ...
A. 16 February 2007: Before you even think of proposing, you should sit down with her and discuss this. All women are different and what she wants/expects may be different from other women, and even you.... (read in full...)
Am I being a fool thinking things could work out for us? Where should I go from here?
Q. I received the email below from my boyfriend, who I did not realize was seeing someone else.. we live in separate cities and saw each other at Christmas and we talked about our relationship and he stated he wanted us to do things right... that he ...
A. 16 February 2007: I've been in the exact same situation before, and I'm sorry you're going through it as well. If he's really torn, he wouldn't completely cut off ties with you while living with her. He's too much of a coward to break up with you. You need to cut ... (read in full...)
Should I send her things in the post or should I meet up with her?
Q. so my GF and i broke up about 1 month ago. we were still talking until last week when i told her i needed "space", to think whether i could remain her "best friend", something she asked of me... we haven't spoken in a week. i receive a sms si...
A. 16 February 2007: If she wanted to see you, she'd likely ask to either come get her stuff, or for you to bring it to her. It's obvious she just wants her stuff back and to move on with her life. Mail her the stuff and let her be. You owe her that much.... (read in full...)
How can I appeal to guys more?
Q. I really want a boyfriend but i don't want to be all desperate and make a fool out of myself... I guess i look ok but not like really pretty or beautiful or anything... My friend is a bit slimmer than me so when she wears mini shorts and when ...
A. 16 February 2007: I agree with Kat. The guys your friend is attracting likely only want one thing and would likely dump her as soon as they got it. You deserve better. Most likely, the nice guys are noticing you - you just don't realize it cause they're not as ... (read in full...)
Why am I feeling like this? Should I break up with him or not?
Q. i need help ASAP.I've been with this guy for 2 weeks. i havent known him long and have a feeling it may of been a bit fast. when im with him its fine, a bit quiet sometimes as we dnt have that many of the same interests i've recently realised. But ...
A. 16 February 2007: I went on a blind date a few months ago. I saw him before he saw me, and my first reaction was "omg, he's ugly, let's go". (I'd brought a friend to help scope him out ;).) But I decided to go through with it. He was nervous and didn't have much ... (read in full...)
I'm losing interest in sex! Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I’m not bothered about wanting sex anymore is something wrong with me? I’m a guy who’s 24 years old and I’m really not bothered about wanting sex anymore. The truth is I’ve never actually had it, I’m still a virgin, I’m abstaining from sex till ma...
A. 16 February 2007: It just means you're maturing and your hormones aren't that of a raving teenager anymore. Congratulations. As for not finding someone yet, don't worry. I was 26 before I had my first boyfriend. You're only 24; you have plenty of time.... (read in full...)
I think I am losing her big time! Does anyone have any ideas how I can prove I love and want to be with her?
Q. Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for just over a year, i am 20 nearing 21 and she is 25 nearing 26. We met on a work night out and we wheve been in love ever since. From the start she has always asked about my ex girlfriends, what i did ...
A. 16 February 2007: For some girls, once you lie, it's very hard to regain their trust. My only advice is - if you lied because you were afraid she'd think negatively towards you about your past - tell her that... and then tell her the truth and how much you love her. ... (read in full...)
I get really nervous and self conscious around girls, any advice agony uncles?
Q. help me. every time i get close to girls and make good conversation to them, and i know they like me, although im not sure as a friend or more, i get stuck. i start getting really nervous around them, well not in class talking and all, but like ...
A. 16 February 2007: Just remember that she's probably a bit nervous as well. When I first met the guy I'm currently dating, I was so nervous that I almost ran out of the store. Looking back on the date, though, I realize he was just as nervous, stuttering and fidgetin... (read in full...)
I get really nervous and self conscious around girls, any advice agony uncles?
Q. help me. every time i get close to girls and make good conversation to them, and i know they like me, although im not sure as a friend or more, i get stuck. i start getting really nervous around them, well not in class talking and all, but like ...
A. 16 February 2007: Just remember that she's probably a bit nervous as well. When I first met the guy I'm currently dating, I was so nervous that I almost ran out of the store. Looking back on the date, though, I realize he was just as nervous, stuttering and fidgetin... (read in full...)
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