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writes:I really want a boyfriend but i don't want to be all desperate and make a fool out of myself...I guess i look ok but not like really pretty or beautiful or anything...My friend is a bit slimmer than me so when she wears mini shorts and when we walk on the pathway outside and cars honk at her it makes me feel really ugly...of course i know i'm not but i always wonder what they are honking her for??I much rather have guys as friends but it does make me feel better if i had a boyfriend to know that i at least have a better personality than my friend...how can i appeal more to guys??i don't know??because they all would probably look at my friend first than look at me Reply to this Question
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (16 February 2007):
They are only attracted to her at first glance. You need a boyfriend that you have got to know first. Just be yourself, being funny always helps to lol.
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reader, wvgirl  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 I agree with Kat. The guys your friend is attracting likely only want one thing and would likely dump her as soon as they got it. You deserve better. Most likely, the nice guys are noticing you - you just don't realize it cause they're not as blatant about it. Try looking around sometime and see the guy that's looking at you when he doesn't think you notice, or the guy who playfully teases you, etc. You'd be surprised. Lots of young guys are insecure about approaching a lady and letting her know that he likes her. Good luck, sweetie!
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reader, kat14 +, writes (16 February 2007):
 This has happened to me, i went out with my mate and she had like 3 guys after her whereas i had none. Just because your mate may be skinnier doesnt mean you cant attract guys. This attention she is getting is likely to be from the wrong kind of guys anyway who are only after one thing.
So maybe the fact she gets more attention from guys isnt as great as it seems. You dont need to flash off body parts to get guys attention try smiling.
Just be urself and maybe try be abit more confident im told guys are attracted by confidence. So just believe in yourself.
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