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writes:I’m not bothered about wanting sex anymore is something wrong with me?I’m a guy who’s 24 years old and I’m really not bothered about wanting sex anymore. The truth is I’ve never actually had it, I’m still a virgin, I’m abstaining from sex till marriage, but it seems the older I get and the less likely I’m going to find my true love, I become more and more less interested in wanting sex. Why is this? I mean the fact that I’m losing interest in sex before I’ve had it, theres got to be something wrong with me hasn’t there?
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reader, wvgirl  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 It just means you're maturing and your hormones aren't that of a raving teenager anymore. Congratulations. As for not finding someone yet, don't worry. I was 26 before I had my first boyfriend. You're only 24; you have plenty of time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): I think it is great that you feel this way, then when the girl of your dreams comes along the love you two will have will be very special. Don't worry about this, it does happen to a lot of people, dispite what they may say.
Take care
xx
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (16 February 2007):
 Not at all. With your resolve to abstain from sex until marriage (which I applaud by the way) and your age, meaning that your hormones have quite possibly subsided some making you feel this way.
I also would not worry too much about finding someone. My son turns 26 on the 27th of this month and has just within the last couple of months found a girl he likes.
It just depends on when the right girl comes along FOR YOU!
I think you will be just fine. Doc.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (16 February 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
Okay, I've got a few points to make...
A) "It seems the older I get and the less likely I'm going to find my true love..."
You're only 24 years old. this is still prime dating time! Once you turn 70 and you've still never found someone to love, maybe I'd understand this statement, but I assure you, several, several, several 24 year olds haven't found their true loves. People who have at 24 are lucky, yes, but rare. I think you will find your "true love". These things take time. Your "true love" - if you believe there is one girl out there for you, is one out of 6,525,170,264 (that number is accurate. I just looked it up). It's going to take a little bit to find her!
B) Losing interest in sex is alright. Once you find someone special, that interest will kick back in. I wouldn't worry about it just yet. If you get into a relationship and you're still not interested in sex, then that's something to wonder about and be concerned about. However, as you're not in a relationship and waiting until after your wedding for sex (which is great, congratulations!), this isn't something to worry about.
I really, genuinely think that you'll find your true love, and when you do, you'll want to sex her up all the time. You're only 24, don't lose hope yet. You're young and the world is yours to explore. That girl is out there somewhere, give her time to find you.
Nothing wrong with you. I'd focus your energy on having fun and enjoying being young and single. I'm not a real sexually fueled person either. I don't think about it 24/7. In fact, if I wasn't having it, I probably wouldn't think about it at all. We're alright.
xxIndia
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 February 2007):
 There's nothing wrong with you, let's face it, there's more to enjoy in life than just sex! And sex is just sex unless you're with that special someone. There's nothing wrong in wanting to abstain from sex either, when you see the STD's going around I can't say I blame you!
Don't worry about this at all, it's perfectly natural. Can you help it if you have good morals?
Eve
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