If I'm not strong about us being apart, my boyfriend feels pressured, but when I mask my feelings, he's feels weak!
Q. Please help. I'm confused by my bf's mixed signals. We are in a long term (3)yrs total, long distance relationship (1 1/2yrs), and we plan on getting married when we are together, like most people, he went to another country for employement opportun...
A. 5 March 2006: wow, there is a lot of sadness going on here but I guess it's not a bad thing, just as long as you can control it the right way. About the message, I doubt it means anything bad. It probably means that he cant take that your sad anymore and want to ... (read in full...)
He hit me with a chair, and not for the first time. Should I leave?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are going through a rough patch and the other day he beat me with a chair. Not the first time hes hit me but I'm now debating whether to leave him. I do love him but I'm scared of him and I have no one else to turn to. What ...
A. 5 March 2006: you cant possibly love someone that beats you. So leave. If you stay with him you are going to be phisically and mentally abused, and be possibley damaged for the rest of your life, unless you get help. There are better men you you...someone that ... (read in full...)
I'm pretty and nice..my friend is ugly. So how did she get a bf and I didn't?
Q. Not boasting, just being confident, but im dead pretty and nice, and my mate is dead ugly and can be really horrible, then how did she get a bf and i didnt? im lonely and i want a bf because now shes left me for her new guy. ...
A. 5 March 2006: you see? now that's why you dont have a bf! my advice: it's better to be dead ugly then have a dead ugly additude. So in your case, you may want to change it then maybe it'll give you some luck!!!... (read in full...)
I helped hook up two of my friends, but now I think I'm falling for one of them myself!
Q. I am 12...and I have a really good friend who just happens to be a guy...then I went and hooked him and one of my other friends up. Now I think I have feelings for him. What should I do?...
A. 5 March 2006: Ok, if those two are together now I would just keep my cool and stay back. Don't go off and break your friends heart by stealing her (or his) guy (or girl) from her (or him). Just but a cap on it, and if things arn't going well well for them and ... (read in full...)
Why am I so jealous of my awful ex's new girlfriend?
Q. Ok.. here's the problem. I broke up with my ex about a month and a half ago. We were together for 18 months, and in that time he lied to me about a few HUGE issues, and manipulated me into doing something that I didn't really want to do. He was in ...
A. 5 March 2006: I think it is about time that you get over your ex bf, besides you said he was verbally abusive and a shitty boyfriend! You dont diserve somone like that, there are better fish in the sea! Don't get jelouse of that girl becasue maybe she deserves ... (read in full...)
All we've been through together...Why do I keep pushing him away and trying to break us up?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a long this long distance relationship for almost a year and three months (but it seems it’s been longer than that, like it’s been like 5 years). My boyfriend is my first love but I’m not his. I’m not the type of ...
A. 5 March 2006: There is nothing wrong with you, and there is nothing wrong with him. You guys are just really busy with life now, and that sounds like its about it. Im sure you dont want to leave him, and I dont think that he wants to let you go ether. About ... (read in full...)
Worried about the pain of first-time sex with my boyfriend...
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16 and I really love him. We've been together for a while and I really want to lose my virginity to him. I'm really scared about the consequences though. I dont want to end up pregnant. I'm not on the pill and I'm not ...
A. 4 March 2006: your not ready, your too young, you are going to cause relationship problems wit you bf, and your future bfs. you may become pregnant, do you want to take that risk? ... (read in full...)
My bf asked my best friend if she would sleep with him..if he was single! Why would he do this?
Q. my bf recently asked my best mate "would she sleep with him if he was single" he admitted it when she told me but also said that he loves me n doesn't even fancy her. i dont know wether to beleive him or not please help!!!!!...
A. 4 March 2006: ok, to me this isn't a good sign. You need to ask him why he said that to begin with. Why would he say something like that? maybe he was testing her? like maybe he thinks that maybe she has a little crush on him or somthing. If I were you I would ... (read in full...)
Can't get my first love out of my head...
Q. I am married with 2 kids and a wonderful wife.I am fully committed to my wife and kids. I had a relationship with a girl from my neighbourhood right from childhood to adulthood. We were engaged to get married . We had strong sexual relation...
A. 4 March 2006: You shouldn't even be contacting her! you are married and have kids. you shouldnt be dealing with your past relationships. Would you like it if your wife was carrying around like this? you do need to get some counciling and save yourself before you ... (read in full...)
My gf claims she and the ex bf are just good friends-So why doesn't she introduce me to him?
Q. My girlfriend is still good friends with her ex. They suffered a miscarriage when they were together, which is obviously terrible, and it is something they can only talk to each other about, as I (for one) don't know how she felt, or what she went...
A. 4 March 2006: its not good for a relationship to have secrets...or hidden relationships. It sounds to me that she still has a relationship with her ex lover ( she is gone all weekend when hes there right? ) you need to talk to her that it isn't good to be hiding ... (read in full...)
I love her but she can't trust me. What should I do?
Q. I am in love. The woman of my dreams just broke up with her boyfirend. I did not realize I love her till recently. I kissed her last night she did not resist but later that night she burst into tears and left. She says she can't trust me and does...
A. 4 March 2006: I have an idea that she is probably still getting over her last break up. Girls are like that. usually if a girl has had so many break ups in the past that has become outcomes of cheatings or other girls, they will trust less and less to their ... (read in full...)
Has the love gone?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 9 months now. At the beginning we were both really into each other and all our friends could see the spark but I'm scared that the fire we used to have is starting to fizzle out. I'm really paranoid about ...
A. 4 March 2006: If you want my honest opinion then here it is: you are too young, you guys are moving too fast, you guys need to take it down a notch so that you guys wont get tired of each other fast. PS: did you talk to him? ask him what he thinks of the si... (read in full...)
He gave another girl his phone number-what should I do and should I be worried?
Q. Me and my boy friend have been together for 2 years with a 3 month split in the middle because he is joining the army. Whilst waiting to go in the army he has got a job at a sport shop. Previously i found out that a girl called "julie" fancied him. ...
A. 3 March 2006: It could be anything....did you discuss it with him? if you dont like it when he is keeping secrets from you, then do you think it is good for both of you if you just keep your feelings inside? Talk to him. Thats all you got to do.... (read in full...)
My best friend has become distant and cold with me...I don't know what to do!
Q. My best friend has recently changed towards me, shes become distant and cold with me. We used to speak all the time and tell each other everything but now we argue everyday and it will end with her shouting at me and saying that she hates me and ...
A. 3 March 2006: There is somthing wrong with you bf...and the only way to work it out is to talk to her about it. If that doesn't work, it may be best to let her go, but still be there for her if she needs a shoulder to cry on. Some people do like some space, so ... (read in full...)
Will the girl i fancy ever pick me over her bf???
Q. dear cupid.. I am 15 and i really really like this girl.She has a boyfriend but has been fallin out with him alot, but she tells me she fancies me and we r really flirty with each other. Me and her met up at the weekend and had a very gd day.. n ...
A. 3 March 2006: This is sorta simular to another post that I have read. First of all, this girl shouldn't even be with this guy to began with since she is already cheating on him, and if you ever get with this girl permanatley, do you think that she would probably ... (read in full...)
Will the girl i fancy ever pick me over her bf???
Q. dear cupid.. I am 15 and i really really like this girl.She has a boyfriend but has been fallin out with him alot, but she tells me she fancies me and we r really flirty with each other. Me and her met up at the weekend and had a very gd day.. n ...
A. 3 March 2006: This is sorta simular to another post that I have read. First of all, this girl shouldn't even be with this guy to began with since she is already cheating on him, and if you ever get with this girl permanatley, do you think that she would probably ... (read in full...)
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