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writes: Not boasting, just being confident, but im dead pretty and nice, and my mate is dead ugly and can be really horrible, then how did she get a bf and i didnt? im lonely and i want a bf because now shes left me for her new guy. Reply to this Question
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reader, wnabe_ctygrl +, writes (5 March 2006):
you see? now that's why you dont have a bf!my advice: it's better to be dead ugly then have a dead ugly additude. So in your case, you may want to change it then maybe it'll give you some luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2006): Im not gonna call you a bitch or anything, but that is kind of mean...I guess i can kinda see your point though...in a realllly distant way. Your inevitably jealous of her, and dont see why she would get a bf. Its probably not that your arrogant, I think its just the way you wrote it. Theres so many fish in the sea...and hers just happened to come before yours. People are attracted to certain people even if they are ugly. its called personality.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (3 March 2006):
 You are also very arrogant and I am sure all your friends love you too!!
I am sure your friend has got a bf because in contrast to your nasty personality she must seem like a shining star!
With a friend like you to put her down, who needs enemies.x
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reader, mystify +, writes (3 March 2006):
 you really dont sound very nice from what you wrote!
its not ok to call people ugly and to compare them to youin order to put them down!
i think you see things from a wierd perspective if you think you can say these things and be nice!
people have already said beauty is in the eye of the beholder and just because you dont think much of her looks it does not mean that she is not gorgeous!
we all have our own types , and maybe she has a nice bum or a sweet flirty type of personality , or maybe she has a twinkle in her eye, something that dosent come from being bitter and twisted!
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (3 March 2006):
 Your FRIEND? Who calls their FRIEND DEAD UGLY? and REALLY HORRIBLE???? If I had a friend who's face was burnt off I would not call them DEAD UGLY...
Maybe if you learned to treat your FRIENDS LESS Like people from a leper colony....the potential boyfriends would not be afraid of you.
You should be Thrilled FOR your FRIEND....asking her advice not sitting around being ....well...horrible?
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reader, harshbutfair +, writes (3 March 2006):
 This is too easy. It's because you're a bitch and she has a heart.
(going from what you wrote).
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2006): I'm so tempted... 8]Anyway, there is of course general beauty in which most if not all people base beauty on. Then there is biased beauty. BB is when you're in love or feel a connection to a person or people, that your emotions become so twisted that it also manifests itself as beauty in itself. For example, in terms of looks, out of 10 (being f**king hot) and 1 (being damn nasty), my lowest was a 2, and my highest was a 6. On average, I am rated at 3. On the other hand, my gf has been 'rated' by her other male friends at around 7 - a guess on what she tells me. I'm not going to say what I think of her objectively, but biasedly, very biasedly, I rate her at 9 out of 10, or maybe even 9.5 out of 10 for yumminess! YUMMY! [goes nuts for a moment]If based on looks alone, I have NO IDEA why my gf chose to stay with me after all the crap 'we've' gone through. Alas, her connection to me isn't based on looks, at least not looks alone. Please also note that if 100% of her friends say I am about 5/10, then she will be influenced, etc.Okay, that's that. I'm done. I'll shut up now. ;o]
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reader, smeedle +, writes (2 March 2006):
 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, you see your friend as inferior to you, you say she is ugly.
Well some people must think different, she may have a fantastic personality and not worry about her looks, this is what makes her attractive not what she looks like of the outside but who she is on the inside.
You need to look at your inner self and see what kind of person below the skin you are then maybe finding a boyfriend will be easy.
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reader, Teeny_gal +, writes (2 March 2006):
 dont worry your time will come!i always talk to my m8 about his gfs and what he shud do..even tho i havent had 1 , i giv him advise..n he told me the same thing " ur time will come"you shud be happy for ur friend..and its not always looks that count..mayb personality?be positiv, mayb mr right is thinkin about u rite now!gd luck! x
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reader, MarthaZ +, writes (2 March 2006):
 I hope you won't take this personally, but people don't get together purely on the basis of their looks. You learn as life goes on that looks can get you to a certain extent, but not everything. I'm sure you're very pretty but if you keep that attitude up people are going to think you are a snob and keep away from you.Be supportive of your friend that she has a boyfriend. That's what friends are for, not to compare yourself to others.
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reader, juliagulia +, writes (2 March 2006):
 You need to stop looking for a boyfriend. What you should do is focus on making some new single girlfriends to go out with and let the boys come to you. And you should be happy for your friend instead of jealous of her. Ugly girls need boyfriends, too!
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