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writes: My girlfriend is still good friends with her ex.They suffered a miscarriage when they were together, which is obviously terrible, and it is something they can only talk to each other about, as I (for one) don't know how she felt, or what she went through.They are still very good friends, even though he lives 100 miles away from where we live. They talk on the phone at least once a week that I know of, and probably more. Her family still care for him and like him, as they do me.But she will not introduce me to him, when he comes to visit I don't see her for the whole weekend. She says she wants to keep the past and the present seperate, but I have to be honest and say I am not comfortable with her 'hiding me away' whenever he is here.I am 99% sure she would never cheat on me, with him or anyone else, but it still bothers me.Any advice?
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reader, chrism +, writes (7 March 2006):
Oh i know how you feel. I felt the same way about my wife of 10 years. She to had an old friend she had known for years and i completlly trusted. However something didn't feel right and after months of denial. I decided to tap the phone and bingo i found all the information after a call to her friend wass recorded. What to well if you have a gut feeling alls ok it probaly is if not try the phone tap at least you will know either way
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reader, wnabe_ctygrl +, writes (4 March 2006):
its not good for a relationship to have secrets...or hidden relationships. It sounds to me that she still has a relationship with her ex lover ( she is gone all weekend when hes there right? ) you need to talk to her that it isn't good to be hiding these kind of things from you, and if you guys are going to get seriose sometime she's going to have to open the other side of her world to you and let you in.
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