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writes: I am in love.The woman of my dreams just broke up with her boyfirend.I did not realize I love her till recently.I kissed her last night she did not resist but later that night she burst into tears and left.She says she can't trust me and does not know how she feels, she also does not want to loose me as a friend.What on earth do I do?
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reader, shania  +, writes (4 March 2006):
 She has just split up with her boyfriend...so she is upset and vunerable,if you were to hit on her,you picked the wrong moment.Ok...you kissed her and she responded,but she later regretted it...dont forget,she has just come out of a relationship so you cant expect her to turn on turn off like a tap.If her boyfriend was the one to finish it then she is going to be heartbroken.If i was you i would write a little note saying that you didnt mean to kiss her and that if she wants someone to talk to...you are there for her.....thats if you want to do that.In time,she might start seeing you more then just a friend.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2006): this is a tricky one!you might end up losing her friendship if you tell her how you feel.she has recently broke up with her bf so leave it a few weeks then see what happens.the most important thing is be there for her and help as best you can!good luck hunny x
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reader, wnabe_ctygrl +, writes (4 March 2006):
I have an idea that she is probably still getting over her last break up. Girls are like that. usually if a girl has had so many break ups in the past that has become outcomes of cheatings or other girls, they will trust less and less to their future mates. ok, dont get freaked out and run away,just stay close friends with her for a while. If you do this then you guys can get a chance to know each other alot better with out feeling like your being pressured into it. Im sure in the near future she will realize what a honest and trustworthy person you really are.
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