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writes: I am 12...and I have a really good friend who just happens to be a guy...then I went and hooked him and one of my other friends up.Now I think I have feelings for him. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2006): I would cool off this guy, he's off limits for you right now. Imagine how upset your friend would be if her and him finished and then you started going out with him. If you hooked them up, and then you finished it, she would think that you were purposely trying to hurt her, try seeing things from her point of view. Things must also be pretty awkward for him, because he must feel like he's got to choose between you both, and that's not fair on him.
At breaktimes and lunchtimes, let her hang out with him, after all, he's her boyfriend, not yours. If you thought something like this was going to happen, then maybe you shouldn't have set them up. If you're hanging around with him at lunchtimes and breaktimes then your mate isn't going to think much of you as a friend.
I'd leave them to get on with their relationship, you never know, they might just finish it anyway because they don't work together, but they need a chance to make it work. If they do finish it, then I wouldn't ask him out for a while afterwaards, because otherwise your friend will be heartbroken. XXX
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reader, wnabe_ctygrl +, writes (5 March 2006):
Ok, if those two are together now I would just keep my cool and stay back. Don't go off and break your friends heart by stealing her (or his) guy (or girl) from her (or him). Just but a cap on it, and if things arn't going well well for them and they just happen to break up, then you may want to SLOWLEY start dating him. You dont want to jump righ into it because you dont want it to seem like you were waiting for them to break up so that you can get him. There, that's my opinion, hope it helps.
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