What can I do about an anal penetration problem?
Q. This is a bit disgusting but I really need advice! My boyfriend likes me to put a finger or 2 in his rear when I do other stuff to him, and that's ok with me, I have no problems doing it, the response I get from him is great, it's erotic and fun. ...
A. 1 April 2009: A finger up the ass is not my idea of a good time, but there is a reason why it is for many - males, its because a finger up the ass puts pressure on the prostate, which increases sensation before and during ejaculation.
But as for your issue, y... (read in full...)
I hate being single!
Q. I hate being single, I'm starting to think something's wrong with me. It seems like no matter what I do, nobody is interested in me. I actually hurt myself quite badly on the way home tonight, I punched a brick wall and my shin really hurts. My ex ...
A. 1 April 2009: Basically the benefit of online dating is it lets you browse people looking for similar things to yourself. Also it allows correspondence prior to meeting, so you can size the other person up and get a deep idea of who they are etc and if they're ... (read in full...)
I hate being single!
Q. I hate being single, I'm starting to think something's wrong with me. It seems like no matter what I do, nobody is interested in me. I actually hurt myself quite badly on the way home tonight, I punched a brick wall and my shin really hurts. My ex ...
A. 30 March 2009: When I split up, or rather, I was dumped, by a relatively long term girlfriend, who was everything I ever dreamed of - I put my heart and soul into that relationship, only to be dumped by text message. I found out that in less than a month she was ... (read in full...)
My mum saw the dirty text messages on my phone and has now told me to keep away from him!
Q. I'm 13 years old. A few weeks ago I met the most amazing boy in the world, let's call him Jack. He is such a player but I really can't stop thinking about him, I was meant to meet him last week but I was on my period the next day, so when I told ...
A. 30 March 2009: I agree with the others, even though you may not want to hear it. No matter how mature you are for your age, you're at an age where certain things are still in appropriate - despite society. Your mother is right, and her reaction is a natural and ... (read in full...)
Should I go permanently bald "down there"?
Q. I've just recently invested in full body laser hair removal. (yay!) But when I went in for the consultation, the consultant told me I need to 'think carefully' about what I do with my pubic hair, because it'll NEVER come back once it's gone. The ...
A. 30 March 2009: Yeah, I'm a guy and of course I like women to be trimmed down there. There are many reasons its popularised, the first being shaven down there can be more arousing for the woman, and generally guys don't like big 70's bush either.
But you know how... (read in full...)
I hate being single!
Q. I hate being single, I'm starting to think something's wrong with me. It seems like no matter what I do, nobody is interested in me. I actually hurt myself quite badly on the way home tonight, I punched a brick wall and my shin really hurts. My ex ...
A. 30 March 2009: In response to your latest update, are you sure your problem isn't that you're single, or could it be because your ex isn't still single? I know thats what ate at me big style previously. Truth be told, some people just naturally don't like being... (read in full...)
He said he loves both of us and won't leave her for me...
Q. I been talking to this guy for a year. We dated briefly and after we broke up, we stopped talking for about a month. Well in that month he started talking to this other girl and they started dating. Well when me and him started talking again, he ...
A. 30 March 2009: Leave him. Cut him loose and be thankful, because the fact that he won't *leave* her for you is proof enough that even if you did get together as a couple, it would lack trust and commitment. You know in your heart this will end in tears - yours. ... (read in full...)
How can I let her see that I am NOT like her ex and would never hurt her?
Q. My girlfriend's EX used to hit her whenever he was drunk, and she was very scared of him. I'd heard that he abused he sexually as well, but she won't talk about it so I'm not so sure. When we met she was on antidepressants, and hadn't been with ...
A. 30 March 2009: Well dude, I think you know whats going on as its pretty obvious. Her ex clearly treated her in a really bad way, bad enough to depress her and to scar her psychologically in a bad way. I feel really bad for her, I can't stand guys who beat up on ... (read in full...)
Excess body hair!
Q. I'm a teenage girl and I have a really embarrassing question. I see all these girls on tv and my friends in the locker room and everything and I have hair all over my body and they don't. I asked my mom because she doesn't have any hair on her ...
A. 30 March 2009: Its because you're a teenage girl. You're at a point in your life where your hormones are changing, and the balances thereof can vary from person to person. If it makes you feel any better, its the same for guys. Albight hair isn't an issue for guys ... (read in full...)
I hate being single!
Q. I hate being single, I'm starting to think something's wrong with me. It seems like no matter what I do, nobody is interested in me. I actually hurt myself quite badly on the way home tonight, I punched a brick wall and my shin really hurts. My ex ...
A. 30 March 2009: Sucks doesn't it! Everyone keeps saying crap like "theres someone out there for everyone", "well keep trying", "keep looking", until you just can't take any more platitudes! I'm sure theres nothing wrong with you - dry spells happen to everyo... (read in full...)
Ideas for a really good first date that is better than dinner and a movie?
Q. Hi, I'm looking for a really good first date idea. I really, really like this girl and want to show her that I care about her and am not like the jerks she has dated in the past. But before I ask here out I need to have a plan... Ladies, what a...
A. 30 March 2009: Dinner is fine, but movies are a crap date, at least early on - because you're sitting in silence, and you can't get to talk to them etc, which is the whole point of the date. While I admire your desire to really reach out there, like stargazing ... (read in full...)
How can I show I trust?
Q. I have a girlfriend who I love with all my heart. We are both honest and we trust each other. We are both people who have been burned by love before. We are both people who take their time before we trust another person. Somehow we seem to be ...
A. 30 March 2009: Hey bro, Firstly, I understand your problem - in my life I've had a couple of good girlfriends who I felt were way out of my league. The kind you expect to be with some big strong rarely handsome guy - or at least a very popular guy. Thats what ... (read in full...)
Can long term drug use cause erectile dysfunction?
Q. I have been dating this man for 5 months, everything is so great and perfect-except for the bedroom. He has a problem keeping it up. Sometimes it works and everything is wonderful, but there are a lot of times when it just dies before we even ...
A. 30 March 2009: Yes, long term drug use can cause such symptoms, depending on the drugs used of course.
However, I wonder if there is more going on here. The fact that sometimes it works, and other times doesn't - being a guy, I'm inclined to think there is perha... (read in full...)
I told her I had a crush on her but she said she's not interested... what now?
Q. I like this girl we've looked at each other from time to time and I said that I have a crush on you and that she's beautiful. She replied saying "ha thanks:)" and then we talked and today I sent her a message with the words of the song "your so ...
A. 30 March 2009: Well dude, the answer is clear. You must move on. While she appreciated your gesture and words I'm sure, she couldn't have made herself any clearer. You have two options: 1) You could continue to try and charm her, ie flowers, send her more ... (read in full...)
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