I'm having inappropriate sexual thoughts. How can I stop this?
Q. Currently I have been extremely turned on and have been craving oral sex. My boyfriend is the best I had ever had, but recently I have been having awful thoughts. For some reason I am craving being gone down on by someone with full lips and I ...
A. 23 August 2012: First of all, there is nothing wrong with oral sex had with good clean body parts, mouth and a partner free of STD. So if you are suspecting that this may not be normal, you can be assured that your urge for oral sex is perfectly normal.
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How can I satisfy my sextual urge without cheating on my wife?
Q. I am alone in a foreign land. My wife and family are not with me. How can I satisfy my sextual urge without cheating on my wife? ...
A. 20 August 2012: Thanks to all who replied. Ms Psychology, Ms. Shrodinger - I do that. Ms Scorpio, I have tried it and my wife prefers normal intimate chats and does not like not sext or erotic discussions. Sunilal, you are right but I cant bring myself to ask such ... (read in full...)
I hope my behaviour lets him know I like him!
Q. guys what would you think? would you think I am into you? and if not what should I do so that he thinks that? this guy and I live door to door in a students` hostel when he looks at me I often have to play with something (hair or accessory) and s...
A. 20 August 2012: I think you need to do two things. One, tell him you do not like the wierd person. Second, spend more time with him. If he wants you as his GF, he will reciprocate soon. Some guys may be too busy with their studies to spare time for girl friends ... (read in full...)
How can I satisfy my sextual urge without cheating on my wife?
Q. I am alone in a foreign land. My wife and family are not with me. How can I satisfy my sextual urge without cheating on my wife? ...
A. 20 August 2012: Thanks ImmortalPrincess for your answer, I do masterbate often, but that is never the real thing. :(
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Can you fall in love without knowing?
Q. is it possible to fall in love with someone without knowing it's happening? ...
A. 17 March 2011: I belive so dear, An old saying where I live. Love is uncontrollable like fire, you cant kindle it or quench it easily.... (read in full...)
When choosing someone to marry, do you use your heart or your head?
Q. I really need help... I have been with my boyfriend for more than 5 years. We have gone through so much together. We really had our trials but in the end what got as through is the foundation of our relationship. He's really my best friend. My ...
A. 17 March 2011: It is a bit of both. First you have to be in love, and then you need to make sure that the marriage and compatibility is likely to last. The compatibility depends on a lot of factors e.g. values, mutual respect, sharing of workload, and many ... (read in full...)
Ex comes to me when he is having dating problems
Q. what do you do when your ex comes to your when they are having girlfriend issues?? my ex is kinda having an affair with a woman who is involved with another man, she keeps telling him she is going to leave her husband for him, and then she changes...
A. 16 March 2011: I think you are doing fine. You told him and her, so it is up to them to fix their ways and thought process.
One small but important thing though, taking away friendship from him will impact him as he says so, and it will also effect your chi... (read in full...)
My married lover says he's living in the same house but different rooms
Q. I have been dating a married man since 2008. He is upside down in the house by $200,000 and cannot qualify for a shortsale. He tells me he is getting a divorce and they live in the same house but different rooms. They have no kids. Th...
A. 15 March 2011: Can you move in with him and share his room for a week or so? You will be able to sense the vibes. One problem will be, where will the kids stay during that period? May be, with their father?... (read in full...)
Should I still be having sex with him or am I being used?
Q. My partner and I have been together for 12 years and we have a daughter together, out of the blue he said he couldn't live with me anymore and moved out. We have been getting on really well and still having sex. I also know he has taken a girl muc...
A. 15 March 2011: Children need a father figure and if he contributes in your daughter's upbringing and continues to meet her, it will be good for her. If you are having sex with him, it has to be out of mutual desire. You can continue as long as you want to. The ... (read in full...)
How do I stop getting wet so easily?
Q. I am a married woman and every time my husband touches me, i get wet easily. What do i do?...
A. 15 March 2011: On the lighter side, this is a good problem to have. Generally women take longer or are averse to overtures. Do you want to check with a doctor if it is a medical confition? If it is not, you should try and ignore it. ... (read in full...)
I feel I'm living without hope of ever having a relationship.
Q. Ive been single 8 months. I am attractive and a good person. And many men do fancy me until they find out that i am 32 years old - This relates to men my own age, as well as giving or taking a couple years. I have everything to offer but i c...
A. 15 March 2011: That does seem strange. In the world as a whole, there is surely no shortage of men looking for a partner, friend or wife. One way is to widen you search location. You will surely meet your match. Only, one of you will need to move. ... (read in full...)
What do you guys suggest I do???
Q. hi feeling down cos my ex says he wants to see how things go.. ive told him how i feel about him over the phone.. now he wont answer any texts i send.. so now i have texted.. you dont seem intresed so i bear no grudges againist you, please could you ...
A. 15 March 2011: It seems that you still care for him. You may also be hoping deep down within that he comes back. Where as he wants some time. You have already told him what you feel, which is perfect. If I were you, I would not repeat it. If he has decided ... (read in full...)
I'm interested in him but not sure as he is confusing?? Any thoughts please?
Q. i know him since childhood .. he is 5 yrs elder to me and I used to call him Anna (brother) .. thtz how any girl here calls a guy who is elder to her .. anyways .. after he finished schooling and left school in my 5th grade we hardly ever met or ...
A. 15 March 2011: I think your friend likes you but may be afraid to take the next step as it may mean added responsibility and loss of freedom. While you seem to be fearing loss of a friend and hence not moving further. In India, our elders come to help and play cup... (read in full...)
Ex comes to me when he is having dating problems
Q. what do you do when your ex comes to your when they are having girlfriend issues?? my ex is kinda having an affair with a woman who is involved with another man, she keeps telling him she is going to leave her husband for him, and then she changes...
A. 15 March 2011: That puts the situation in slightly different perpective. You seem to be coming from the point "be happy with her, but if you are not, please spare me the details, and I dont want to come between you two" The other lady's "plying both" approach... (read in full...)
Men: would you be turned on or freaked out or something else by this?
Q. Hello lovely men of DearCupid :D How are we today? So, picture this... You wake up in the morning with a hard on only to find your girlfriend/mrs was already 'attending' to it... Reaction please? Would you be turned on? Freaked out? ...
A. 14 March 2011: Would love it.... (read in full...)
One night stand with friend was great. How do I know if he wants to do it again
Q. Had a one night stand with a man I like a lot as a friend. It was great, and I quite sure that I would like to see him again. How do I make sure whether he feels the same way ?...
A. 14 March 2011: Usually, satisfaction in such sessions is mutual and there is a high likelyhood he would have enjoyed it too. You said that he is a friend, so I believe that you both meet in groups or just the two of you. Act your normal self with a little e... (read in full...)
Ex comes to me when he is having dating problems
Q. what do you do when your ex comes to your when they are having girlfriend issues?? my ex is kinda having an affair with a woman who is involved with another man, she keeps telling him she is going to leave her husband for him, and then she changes...
A. 14 March 2011: Men and women think differently, and your advice to him may be better. I think you should continue to listen to him, even though you dont need to know. It is a friend's need. You may be his only lady friend he could confide in. The good thing ... (read in full...)
Partner's comments about sex with his ex make me feel insecure
Q. I have been with my partner for five years. When we first met he was not long split up with his girlfriend and although I thought he was over her he was still in love with her. After we first had sex he said that it was not as good with me as with ...
A. 14 March 2011: First of all, I feel that you should be happy the way you are. With age our body structure changes, so accept it. Second, your old mates are history. You can as well stop thinking about them. Third, sex is important but not the ultimate t... (read in full...)
Should I help the woman next door?
Q. I'll keep this as short as possible. My neighbors are wonderful people. He is very ill and wheelchair bound from MS and another debilitating disease. Last night his wife came onto me, she wants me because as she put it, she feels safe with me. I ...
A. 13 March 2011: This reminds me of the lady chatterley's lover situation. That was fiction and you seem to be in a dilema. I don't think sex can be charity. There have to be feelings. And if they are there, it turns into a messy situation. If you "date" is a ... (read in full...)
TO MEN: What are your opinions on sex while the girl is on her period?
Q. TO MEN: What are your opinions on sex while the girl is on her period? My bf will sometimes do it but close to the end where you cant tell at all. Or shower sex is a plus but do men not like it?.. does it feel any different to the guy?...
A. 13 March 2011: Sex when the girl is on period has to be if both enjoy it. It can be messy. At times the girl may not get the pleasure. It is more of a mental objection than a physical one. My wife and I used to have it in younger days, but now she does not want ... (read in full...)
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