14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 6 December 2011: If you don't feel you can tell you Mum just yet, although I agree it is the best course of action, try talking to someone at school. Is there a teacher or councillor you could talk to. When you do come to tell your Mum it might be helpful if there ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of having no bust. Can implants save this situation?
Q. I really hate my small breasts! I don't know if I should get implants, because men hate implants (supposedly) and because they're risky. But I really can't stand my small breasts anymore. I've been with few guys, but all of them, including my ...
A. 19 June 2011: I have to agree with person1234, lots of men like small breasts, for some "more that a handful" is a turn-off!
Instead of surgery you could try doing pectorial excercises.
Push-ups:
Lie on your front and bend your knees then cross your an... (read in full...)
After graduating from college I'm really lost!
Q. This is most likely off topic but I'll try anyway considering it's a forum... I'm really depressed with my life right now. I got a degree in journalism and tried to pave a path to law school. Then I realized the hard truth of how the LSAT determi...
A. 3 June 2011: I think you shoould experiment with what want to do. Find temp work in a law office. See if you can write some articles for you local news paper and so on.
You are young and you have time to decide, but makes sure you do it for the right reasons,... (read in full...)
Believe him and stay? Or leave and accept a cannabis addiction?
Q. Dear agony aunts and uncles, I'm 17 and I love my boyfriend (also 17) dearly. We have been together since January. Before we got together, we were really good friends and he regularly smoked cannabis. Since we have been together, he has given up ...
A. 3 June 2011: I strongly think you should not accept his addiction, for both your health and his.
However I do think that you should talk with him about it. You can offer him advice, and anything like that.
I think you should also talk to him about his Fa... (read in full...)
Do you think its ok to have a couple's profile on Facebook and for me and my BF to share it together?
Q. My boyfriend made the suggestion last night that we delete both of our facebook profiles and create a new one that is a couples profile and share it together that way the people that add us or that are real true friends will not have a problem ...
A. 2 June 2011: You could do but, not to be a pessimist, what would happen if you were to break-up. I think it is also good to have some space - individuality.
You would still be able advertise your relationship.
I also think that, as others have said, that ... (read in full...)
My beauty therapist is upset I don't buy all my products from her so now she doesn't treat me well!
Q. I suffer from spotty skin so for the past 2 years I've been seeing this beauty therapist who gives me specialised facials. I have noticed a great improvement with them. Now she also reccomends certain products which she sells. For the past 2 years ...
A. 29 May 2011: I would just try talking to her first, you could mention that is causing you to think about going elsewhere, because if she is really is that concered about money then she will do anything to change just so that you will stay with her. However i... (read in full...)
39 weeks pregnant--can how I sit affect the baby?
Q. i am 39 weeks pregnant. can how i sit affect my unborn baby? i also sleep on my sides and sometimes it seems as if he is on the side that i'm sleeping on am i hurting him? Thanks a lot for your answers....
A. 18 May 2011: Oh just to add, you could always contact your health adviser, doctor or midwife. Xxx... (read in full...)
39 weeks pregnant--can how I sit affect the baby?
Q. i am 39 weeks pregnant. can how i sit affect my unborn baby? i also sleep on my sides and sometimes it seems as if he is on the side that i'm sleeping on am i hurting him? Thanks a lot for your answers....
A. 18 May 2011: I am unsure to whether sitting can have an effect on your baby, however I have done vast amounts of research on what/how you can affect your baby, I never found any advice for sitting, or problems certain ways can cause. Sleeping on your side is ... (read in full...)
Should I complain about my treatment in the store?
Q. Hey guys. This is not a relationship question, but more a question for your view point. Im 18 years of age, and suffering from a condition that my doctor is not quite certain of yet. I also have crohns disease. My condition is something to do ...
A. 15 May 2011: I think you should, If she was still in her uniform she is representing the company. She is rude and ignorant, you should definitely report her! Xxx... (read in full...)
I want my teacher to adopt me!
Q. my relationship with my family has been getting worse, my mother has been sick since december,and we dont know what it is. shes been out of work, and im on crutches with a hurt knee, and whenever i need her i ask her but she gets so mad when i need ...
A. 11 May 2011: I am pleased it's a happy ending for you. Xxx... (read in full...)
I want my teacher to adopt me!
Q. my relationship with my family has been getting worse, my mother has been sick since december,and we dont know what it is. shes been out of work, and im on crutches with a hurt knee, and whenever i need her i ask her but she gets so mad when i need ...
A. 7 May 2011: I think you should defiantly ask to see her during the holidays. It is such a shame about everything that is going on. I am not sure if I would ask her to adopt you, but you could hint at it by saying, I don't know how I am going to cope any more... (read in full...)
I want my teachers to be more friendly than they are!
Q. Disclaimer: I realize that the topic of this question is a bit of a stretch for this site, but my rationale is that it has to do with relationships, in a sense, so it IS applicable. ;) Now, to actually get down to business. To get right to the ...
A. 3 May 2011: It's is hard to seek these relationships with teachrs. You would need to find the right teacher and just let it grow naturally. I would also try really hard in that subject once you have found 'the teacher', as this is always helpful, and teachers ... (read in full...)
I love my English teacher so much.
Q. I'm only 15 years old and he is 26. Seriously i can't stop thinking about him. I miss him so much. I'm pretty confused as to how to make him love me. I always wear short skirt and tiny clothes in dress up when i come to his class. please help me?...
A. 2 May 2011: I get how you feel, although, I hope you know that nothing can happen as he could loose his job, go to prison, and also end up on the sex offenders list. Although I know that you may well know this but your feelings still don't go away. I would... (read in full...)
I'm worried my boyfriend will spend more time with his baby brother or sister when it arrives than me!
Q. Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 yrs now and we are very happy however he gives me attention and stuff, he has a twin sister and they are both 20 turning 21 soon, so for 20 years they didnt have a younger sibling just the two of t...
A. 27 April 2011: Have you tried talking to him about this. You could try explaining how you feel. But I would say how you are really excited to or something else positive. I always find that talking is the best way to resolve a situation. But picking the righ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I might be pregnant and I'm scared to tell my parents!
Q. Hi, Im 14 years old and I have a boyfriend that is 16. Me and him had sex about a monto get h ago and I was supossed to get my period a week ago but it hasnt come. Im afraid I might be pregnant. We used a condom, but it broke. I dont know how to t...
A. 27 April 2011: You should do a pregnancy test first. If you wanted, and I am sure this is not something most people would want to do, but you could as a teacher or your school nurse for help as well. They are probably experienced in these sorts of things and can ... (read in full...)
I just can't keep my tears at bay...what can I do to control myself?
Q. Can anyone help me control my emoutions? My dad always shouts at me and stuff, and I end up crying. (I am a VERY emotional person, whether it is laughing or crying.) I don't want to let him know he has hurt me and won. But I just can't keep my tears ...
A. 19 April 2011: Thanks guys, the suggestions will be really helpful. I might talk to someone at School, I'm sure it is just hormones clashing or something. Thanks so much. Xx... (read in full...)
What top should I wear with this skirt? I want to surprise my partner.....
Q. I have a gray skirt, with a dark blue stripe right at the bottom. It's pretty elegant and I need ideas on what blouse / top to pair it with. The stripe makes it difficult, I think. I'll wear it in an elegant context, maybe you can give me some ideas ...
A. 31 March 2011: I would wear a blouse with it, possible made out of cream floaty material, perhaps with a bow! I think this one...:
http://shop.hm.com/gb/shoppingwindow?dept=DAM_SKJ_BLU&shoptype=S!
What do you think? Xx... (read in full...)
Why did you even ask?
Q. What brought you to Dear Cupid? Most likely it's because of some problem in your life or relationship. That's how most of us stumbled upon this place. You came here hoping that these anon people on the internet could offer you some insight into ...
A. 28 March 2011: I have no idea why people lash out. I have to can understand why people repost. They may have not gotten very many replies or something like that, but you are right they might have not liked the answers they had gotten. I try to always feedback ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher like a second mother
Q. During my junior year, I had a chance to meet one of the best teachers ever in my high school career. I took AP Biology with her, and at first I just thought of her as a teacher. As time goes by, I noticed that she is not just a teacher by job, but ...
A. 26 March 2011: You are so lucky that your teacher thinks the same about you too. I feel the same way about a teacher, I have been having alot of trouble and she has helped me so much.
I asked for help on here, I got the reply that, if I wasn't careful I would ... (read in full...)
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