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My heart aches desperately
Q. I am embroiled in a passionate affair with a man who once taught me English Literature. I was besotted by him at school, and over the course of my sixth form years developed a close friendhip with him. Our relationship oozed frighteningly powerful ...
A. 7 October 2009: well i had such passionate feelings for one of my instructors who basically watched me grow up and assisted me through the tough times however we both realized after i graduated it would be better to cut off contact. she offered to chat on messaging ... (read in full...)
Is there something I can do to grab a guy's attention?
Q. Hi, i am 20 years old and i have yet to snag a boyfriend. I consider myself to be a really nice person who is always there to help others when they need it. But for some reason guys only see me as someone they could be friends with...nothing more. ...
A. 7 October 2009: go to functions that you enjoy and you may come across someone interesting. or do the opposite go to a postive function but were you normally wouldn`t go and meet someone different from your norm. it could work. seek and you will find is how the ... (read in full...)
I'm at a stand still with someone I love who doesn't know what she wants.
Q. Well, I'm kind of at a stand still right now, and I need someones opinion. I'm 20, now ex girlfriend is 31, she is married, and has 2 kids, and says she loves her husband more than anything, unless they are in a fight. Her and I dated for 2 year...
A. 7 October 2009: well if you listed the pros and cons of pursuing your relationship of a married women with children i have to say the odds are defnitley against you. reality check...move on with your life you don`t have to obssess over this unattainable person. ... (read in full...)
I want to plan our future but he thinks I'm thinking too far ahead!
Q. Hi my boyfriend and I go to seperate colleges and he plays baseball. We have been together for 3 years and were planning on getting married the summer after graduation. Everytime I bring something up that I'm concerned about I.e. Money or something ...
A. 7 October 2009: i wouldn`t quit what i love either. but yeah i guess it sounds like he`s putting you on the back burner but to me it seems he is not ready to you know follow through with the idea of the "m" word. i think you should rearrange how you say stuff to ... (read in full...)
Men and sex
Q. I have a question about what men like during sex. I have been with a few different people, but my new boyfriend likes something that none of the others have. He likes to lick my butt. I have had boyfriends who liked to play with my butt, and who ...
A. 7 October 2009: well its not listed under something typical. however what is one man`s fear is another mans`s pleasure. har har ... (read in full...)
Is there something I can do to grab a guy's attention?
Q. Hi, i am 20 years old and i have yet to snag a boyfriend. I consider myself to be a really nice person who is always there to help others when they need it. But for some reason guys only see me as someone they could be friends with...nothing more. ...
A. 7 October 2009: what type of attenchion we aiming for? i say just be you and flirt with guys your attracted to. if you decide to change into some naughty freak all the guys who respect you may start paying attenchion to your sexual apperance. i say cont being a ... (read in full...)
How do I get this relationship moving along?
Q. So I just started seeing this girl and I can't really read whats going on in her head and I'm not really sure where to expect things to go. We've gone out on 3 dates so far, due to logistics we can only see each other on the weekends, I've s...
A. 7 October 2009: i have to say nice catch man. she is different from the other women you encountered. she doesn`t need to rely on a man. and it sounds like she is a virgin. i say you just have to go the pace that`s already established. once she can truly let her ... (read in full...)
Is he just being polite or is he interested?
Q. ok so here it goes. everyday when i walk to campus i pass this really cute guy. each time we pass each other he makes eye contact with me and smiles. is he interested? or is he just being polite? im not good at reading guys signals so i need some ...
A. 7 October 2009: thats vague. it is difficult to eliminate interest from politeness due to a simple smile and eyecontact. to find out for sure how bout starting a conversation with him who knows you could confirm he is interested or the worst that could happen he ... (read in full...)
When will it grow
Q. Im 14, 15 in a month and i am very insecure about the size of my penis. Im not as endowed as some of the other guys at school. and it kinda brings me down. It kinda makes me feel bad about myself when i cant fill my pants up properly. Yeah, im ...
A. 7 October 2009: wait till your 18 to worry if your insecure. you have time to grow if not theres always other things i wouldn`t recommend to enhance growth. but like chics with flat chest some guys dig that and dudes with....well some chics dig that. just be ... (read in full...)
What are some tips in lasting longer during sex?
Q. so I met this amazing person, and we care for each other deeply. But when it comes to sex, I cum too fast. Not even like, I dont last long. But, Literally, I came as the condom was put on. I cant control this, I have tried "dont foc...
A. 7 October 2009: lola is right. practice bro and you`ll be close to being pro. but seriously masturbate if you want to perform longer. you learn a thing or two about things you can do.... (read in full...)
Was I too forward and ruined things?
Q. Hello Some advice needed men/women!! I need to know if i have been too forward and ruined things???? Ok i met this guy and we would bump into eachother a lot! he would always come over to speak to me, he would stop what he was doing to come and talk...
A. 7 October 2009: big ron stated it wonderfuly. either he will pursue you or not. maybe you were temporary entertainment. don`t work yourself over him babe.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has this theory that because he works longer hours and makes more money, he shouldn't have to lift a finger at home?!?!
Q. Is this normal? Am I crazy? OK so I have been with my man for almost 4 years now. Right now I am between jobs so I pick up most of the slack with the housework. Here's my problem. When I am working full time I am also responsible for ...
A. 6 October 2009: the title of th is made me laugh no offense. but the system yall got could be replaced with simply sharing each other chores. when one isn`t avalible to do something the other does it vice versa. keep things mutual for a healthy relationship rather ... (read in full...)
Is she thinking about someone else during sex?
Q. On three occasions while having sex with my wife, I've noticed that she turned her face sideways, not looking at me ( our position was that she was under me,while I was on top of her ). She closed her eyes and turned her head side ways. Does this ...
A. 6 October 2009: if you suspect her thinkin of someone else then compare and contrast how she noramlly acts when you have sex to how she has sex lately. then again it could be anything like america54 stated just ask if your asumptious bother you.... (read in full...)
I can't figure out what's wrong with my relationship!
Q. Hello everyone! My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 11 months now. We both graduated college. He has a job and Im still looking for one. He lives about 45 minutes away from me so we get to see each other about 2 times a week. Other th...
A. 6 October 2009: yep the spark is fading. your trying to hold on to what you once had a reignite the flame. he doesn`t seem to be putting much effort in keeping the flame. just restating your words. if your tired of attempting to fix something thats broken then find ... (read in full...)
Is it good that my g/f tells me whenever guys hit on her?
Q. Hello dear reader. I’m 4th year of Med school I’m 22.Yeah my studies are really difficult. So I met a girl this summer don't know how to explain: but everything just went too fast. We kissed first day, we had sex 3 days after. And we went to have ...
A. 6 October 2009: well...keep in mind what is happening now she is attractive and long distant. hopefully she is sincere bout moving to your city to be with you. that you should have faith if she truly wants to be with you. however keep in mind the same amount of ... (read in full...)
He lied about his age. What should I do now?
Q. I met a guy who told me he was 18 going on 19..things developed fast and I think I've fallen for him, only for him to tell me he's 16. I'm 22. I'm confused and told him I need time to think. What should I do?...
A. 5 October 2009: if your relationahip isn`t sexual and your able to restrain from having sex with the lad then i suppose it will be fine to remain in contact. however if things progress to were it shouldn`t then cut off contact. he is a minor your an adult its your ... (read in full...)
How do I go back to feeling happy and complete on my own?
Q. I'm 23 years old, I've just finished my postgraduate degree and started working. I consider myself to be attractive and my colleagues wonder/ask me why I'm still single. I get guys approaching me and asking me out for a date but I never like the...
A. 5 October 2009: during other activities you enjoy doing you havn`t come across any attractive males yet? since you say no one in your viscinity is of interest and you want someone to feel in the void and you say your life is well structure i suppose is safe to go ... (read in full...)
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