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writes:Hello dear reader. I’m 4th year of Med school I’m 22.Yeah my studies are really difficult. So I met a girl this summer don't know how to explain: but everything just went too fast. We kissed first day, we had sex 3 days after. And we went to have vacation together, and other activities, I’m 4 months with her. In September the problem is that we're in different citys.My university is more prestigious, and we have to wait till March, to see each other and then she'll transfer her documents to my city. One thing bothers me, she is pretty and I can’t control this situation, there were times when she told me that colleagues tried to have her phone number, or there were 2 times that a guy tried to go out with her. And every time she says no to them. That’s her words, what she tells me. But every time she tells me it makes me crazy, I phoned already to 2 guys and explained them to “back off my gf” they understood, but I can’t do it all the time. And I’m beginning to ask myself questions. So is it jealousy and my GF does the right thing telling me this, or she is trying to break up or something like that and she isn’t so innocent as I think. But we talk each day we see each other on cameras, I know her schedule and after university she goes home, but why am I so nervous. I talked with her about this situation, and she tells me: you think it’s better if I wouldn’t tell you? We have to say everything to each other.Thank you for your advice.
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reader, doom +, writes (6 October 2009):
doom is verified as being by the original poster of the question anonymous male reader: yes it's a good thing, and i respect it,i should calm down...but a human person is like that:stress etc when you don't control things.thx
vampirik nikolas: she is sincere,her documents are allready in one of the university in my city,i'll keep in mind not to open my self 100%;) we man have to have lot's of surprises in our bag;)thx for answer
anonymous female reader: i would like to know , but paradoxal it makes me sad.as i sad guys become crazy when they can't control things.And yes you're right, i should be more cool and let her live her life.Don't think she is so silly.(because she is a sentimental person) I think this is just distance stress.Thx for answer
Thanks guys you calmed me down a little bit))hope to help you with your questions;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): It's definitely a good thing that she tells you, but calm down and don't get all super-jealous all the time or she'll end up keeping these things to herself.
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reader, vampiric_nikolas  +, writes (6 October 2009):
well...keep in mind what is happening now she is attractive and long distant. hopefully she is sincere bout moving to your city to be with you. that you should have faith if she truly wants to be with you. however keep in mind the same amount of time it took you to hit the sack who is to say she`s not a secret nympho balancing relationships with other men. just don`t invest to much in her till you know for shure she`s for you if you have doubts since you say its movin to fast. good luck hope this helped bro
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): Would you rather know or not know?
If you speak everyday sounds to me like she is not losing interest.
And you're early in your relationship. This is the time where you get the jealousy, the clingyness and what not. Distance is the hardest because you can't be there to hold her and to show her how much you do care. You can't physically get her to realise why she is lucky to have you.
She is lucky to have you. You sound very caring. Just remember, she is just as lucky as you are. She probably worries about what you are up to, just she hides it better than you.
Be careful though. Nbody likes a pushy partner. You have to let her live her life else you'll push her away. If it is meant to work she'll stay faithful. If it is not...then it just won't work. Doesn't mean you did anything wrong. Just wasn't meant to me. Keep in contact with her. Send her cute texts, tell her she's beautiful. She'll respect you and respect what she has. And then if she is silly enough to throw that away for some bloke she meets away, then you come out the better person. Good luck.
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