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writes:Hi, i am 20 years old and i have yet to snag a boyfriend. I consider myself to be a really nice person who is always there to help others when they need it. But for some reason guys only see me as someone they could be friends with...nothing more. is there something i am doing wrong? the guys i talk to describe their dream girl and yet for some reason they have no idea they are describing me! now i am what most people would describe as a goody goody and i can be a bit shy but my self confidence is fine and i think that over all i could make someone very happy. is there something i can do to grab a guys attention? I am at a total loss here so any help would be appreciated. Thanks!
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents +, writes (7 October 2009):
 Those guys that are describing their dream girl to you, and it happens to be you... have you asked any of them out on a date, or are you waiting for THEM to ask YOU out? Make sure you have not skipped this step.
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reader, vampiric_nikolas  +, writes (7 October 2009):
go to functions that you enjoy and you may come across someone interesting. or do the opposite go to a postive function but were you normally wouldn`t go and meet someone different from your norm. it could work. seek and you will find is how the saying goes. but just like i said be yourself and glad you opt out goin bad. who knows those fellows who were tlkin bout there dream girl among them could be one of your admires. oh the wonders of life.... :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno im not aiming on becoming a naughty freak lol...just girl friend material.
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reader, vampiric_nikolas +, writes (7 October 2009):
what type of attenchion we aiming for? i say just be you and flirt with guys your attracted to. if you decide to change into some naughty freak all the guys who respect you may start paying attenchion to your sexual apperance. i say cont being a sweet lady and you may meet your prince charmin. yep i hope you found this a bit humourus in this reply but good luck
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