My best friend is stealing my ideas...including the one about the tattoo that I've always wanted!!
Q. Basically the question is, am I making a bigger deal of this than I should. Here's the situation: So, I've always wanted at least one or two small tattoos. That's it. But I'm not going to get them until I'm older. So what I did was I took ...
A. 23 May 2011: Chances are, if the tattoo is really meaningful to you, you will still have that same initial intrest and love for it when it is time to get it done.
For her, it's more of a fleeting idea. It seems great at the time but eventual it will dull out... (read in full...)
Sadly, I am in love with a woman, who is not my wife, but who I do love, what should I do?
Q. I am a 29 yr old guy with problems (obviously). I have been married to my wife for just shy of 1 year, though we have been together for over 7 years (met in college, first 2 yrs were not really serious yet). She is about a year younger than me. Five ...
A. 24 July 2009: Do you really think you are not "bad for her" yourself, if you can do this to your wife?
Just wondering, it seemed like an ironic comment.... (read in full...)
Should I confront him about his online dating account?
Q. My bf and I have been together for more than a year. We dated for 5 months and I had to go back home but came back after 8 months and moved back in with him. we never ended the relationship and we are deeply in love with one another. Recently I ...
A. 24 July 2009: I have two things to say, ONE, is that it is possible he made this dating profile a long time ago and has nothing to do with it now. Unless you have proof he is currently using it then I wouldn't mention it. Which brings me to... TWO, by... (read in full...)
Why does he want to hang out with me when he has a wife, a kid, and another on the way?
Q. hey everyone. i am a 17 year old girl and im having an issue. I like this guy named Tony who is 26 years old and he used to work as a security guard for my school. When he was working for my school i used to skip class andhang out with him and we ...
A. 24 July 2009: If he's comfortable enough to do this in front of his wife I don't think there's anything to worry about. Yes, it is weird that he is a touchy feely guy, but he probably thinks you are a nice kid and likes having you around.... (read in full...)
Lost! Ex keeps changing his personality
Q. My ex keeps changing his personality and i'm totally lost. I'll start at the beginning. We met at work and were flirting straight off. he is a couple of years younger than me but that was never a problem. He puts so much stress on himself that he ...
A. 24 July 2009: Unargueably, he did something with this girl when he first left. He was too embarrassed/ashamed/guilty to even see you when he got back. Regardless if a person is trustworthy or not, it's dangerous to let themselves be "put into the position". T... (read in full...)
He slept with 71 women, I've only been with 2 men - am I over reacting?
Q. Ive just found out that my boyfriend of 5 month has slept with 71 women!! I went out with him the other nite and i heard a conversation mentioned bout the number 71 i asked him and he said i was number 72! I feel sick cos i got the impression that ...
A. 24 July 2009: Are you seeing the guy I was seeing last? Haha, it sounds like the same exact story!! Well, you gotta realize, he's not doing this "behind your back", this is his past. So, maybe he is a womanizer, and a bit of a WHORE, but that doesn't mean he ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of my annoying boyfriend without breaking his heart
Q. im with this lad that really gets on my nerves everythin he does annoys me so ive bin thinkin about finishing it but he keeps saying he needs me an he cant live without me an it will break his heart if i finish it we have only bin together 5 an a ...
A. 24 July 2009: Explain to him you are taking time to work on yourself [School, job, famile, ect], leave out the bit that he is clingy and annoying.
Just say it's on you and give him reason to believe that maybe in a few months you will be ready to see him agai... (read in full...)
His drinking , non-interest in sex or communicating is destroying our relationship, suggestions please?
Q. I would really appreciate some help with my dilema. I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 months. Things moved along quite quickly and he told me he loved me quite quickly. The feelings were soon recipricated on my half. We only see each other at...
A. 2 June 2009: If he can't talk to you now, trust me, he won't learn it later on.
Guys something in their brains that say 'if i can get away with it, do it'. This doesn't change by a girl being upset at them. It changes by losing something wonderful.
Leave n... (read in full...)
His ex wants back into his life
Q. l have been dating my boyfrend for 6 months now. his ex came back a month ago and she wants to reconcile with him. all his relatives know her and is in support of them getting back together. they are putting pressure on him to break up with me and ...
A. 2 June 2009: This is true.
It's not right for the family to do this but they have judged and ruled in her favor.
If you go visit them, try not to mention her and remain as positive/loveable as possible.
Goodluck.... (read in full...)
In love, yet we can't seem to make it work, due to clashes!
Q. My boyfriend of two years have had our ups and downs. Everytime things go well in our individual lives [ie: get out of debt, decide to quit bad habits] we work so well together, and I can see a definite future for us. The problem is, when we are ...
A. 2 June 2009: Thank you,
I hope that we can learn to take things on together, instead of turning them against each other.
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I like my mate's girl and she likes me! What do I do?
Q. i really need some advice. i have fallen in love with my friends girlfriend. They have been together 6 years. Ive liked her for a while now, and last week i was out drinking and i saw her out and we had both lost our friends so me and my fr...
A. 1 June 2009: Think about it this way,
if she leaves him it is not so unlikely she can do the very same thing to you.
How upset would you be if after several years with her she wanted to bump over to your next best friend?... (read in full...)
I can't get over him
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend five months ago and the break up hurt me. I tried everything to get back together with him, but he's simply not interested, I love him so much and he was the best thing in my life. Each and every day I miss him and I wo...
A. 1 June 2009: You can get over him.
But what you are doing currently will not help you to do so.
It is hard, but cut of contact. Don't be angry that he won't get back together with you, but don't try to remain friends either. Friendship, or more, may come in ... (read in full...)
How can I stop her depression from dragging me down?
Q. My girlfriend of 6 months is going through some depression. I've tried all i can to be nice and supportive but she keeps shutting me down, and snapping at me whenever I offer support or anything. She also has been very distant, it takes her hours ...
A. 1 June 2009: My boyfriend of two years is doing the same to me.
I know he has to settle things on his own, so I am trying to give him as much space as possible why still reminding him I am there for him.
Also, I like to leave up tragic true stories up on th... (read in full...)
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