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I'm 24 years old, have a fantastic partner called Michael and two puppies called Bonnie and Clyde.
I'm a fully qualified counsellor and sex therapist and specialise in putting the "spice" back into marriages which have seemed to run their course! Trust me, they haven't. If you seem to have any problems of a perosnal nature and want some private advice, please feel free to send me an email!
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What can I do to get my husband to do foreplay?
Q. My sex life with my husband is not so great. He doesn't do foreplay. He doesn't kiss me at all. He thinks touching on my breast for like a second is so suppose to just get my hot and bothered. I have talked to him about, but nothing. After sex ...
A. 14 July 2008: From reading those replies which I assume are yourself itcomes across as though your husband isn't feeling very sexy anymore. Obvious I know but the truth.
First off
* Has anything changed in your lives majorly recently?
* Is he under any stre... (read in full...)
What can I do to get my husband to do foreplay?
Q. My sex life with my husband is not so great. He doesn't do foreplay. He doesn't kiss me at all. He thinks touching on my breast for like a second is so suppose to just get my hot and bothered. I have talked to him about, but nothing. After sex ...
A. 13 July 2008: As a sex therapist, I have to be honest this is one of the most common problems!
Obviously, only knowing what you have read I cannot give you a proper analysis. Try to enage your husband sexually in more foreply, for instance send him a text tel... (read in full...)
Are all of my positive qualities "outweighed" by the way I look?
Q. I am 6 foot 18 years old dark haired. Unfortunately I am very overweight. My looks aren't bad for my weight, and I have good posture and can generally hold in my stomach. But it doesn't hide my weight. I have been told that I am a really sweet guy...
A. 13 July 2008: From the sound of things you have 95% of the package. And believe me, I know most women that would love their bloke to have 95% of the package. If you feel you need to lose weight, do it for YOU!
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My husband has started to cheat. What should I do?
Q. Hi i have been married since 3 years and have 2 months baby boy.my problem is tht my husband has started cheating me without any general reason .i m 23 and he is 24.i cant stand this as he does not love me and care for me any more.he doesnt even ...
A. 13 July 2008: I think your husband is being very unreasonable having an affair when you have a new born baby. It sounds like you also may be suffering from post natal depression.
I have a few questions so please do not be offended...
Was it an arranged marr... (read in full...)
I'm really scared that I might be pregnant
Q. Dear ________, I see my boyfriend almost everyday, or at least talk to him but, when he told me he was going away for a week to a town 2 hours away and I couldn't talk to him at all, I knew I had to do something to let him know that I really l...
A. 13 July 2008: As unlikely as it is it IS possible to get pregnant without intercourse. Generally though sperm can only live outside of the body for about 5 minutes before they die and considering the amount of time between the ejaculation and his fingers inside ... (read in full...)
If I tell my mother I'm pregnant I think she'll kick me out of the house!!
Q. Im 11 years old and i think im pregnant ifi tell my mum i know she will kick me out of the house. what should i do??...
A. 12 July 2008: First off, you need to determine if you are pregnant. Go to your doctor or a pharmacist for an EPT. If you are then, as a minor, you need to tell your mother. Yes she may be shocked, angry and upset but you need her support.
Also 11 years old is s... (read in full...)
This guy wants me to send him naked pictures of me
Q. this guy wants me to send him pictures either nude or somewhat nude i dont want to be nude at all not even in bra and underwear i really like himm but i dont want to do it. what do i do?...
A. 12 July 2008: You're only 13-15. How old is this guy? EIther way, don't do anything you are uncomfortable with... (read in full...)
Is there a particular age that a woman, is assumed to be sexually active or not a virgin?
Q. At what age is it assumed a woman is sexually active? For men, is it a turn off to find out a woman is a virgin? Especially, of those men that are of mature age? For women, how old were some of you when you lost your virginity? What sort of pre...
A. 12 July 2008: It all depends on the man. WOrking as a sex therapist I can honestly tell you that sexual experience turns a man on but so doeslack of as they can see themselves as a teacher.
I was nearly 17 when I lost my virginity and in all honesty i was glad... (read in full...)
He wants a non-relationship, relationship, sex without commitment, I care for him, but don't want to be used, should I play hard to get, or what?
Q. hey.i met this guy in college a year back.Initially it was chattin on the phone and all..then one day we decided to meet at his place and go for a movie or somehin.I don't know who started it but we made out.I know that he is physically attracted to ...
A. 12 July 2008: I'm sorry, he wants all the benefits of a relationship without having the responsibility for it.
You need to realise that although you so obviously have feelings for this man, you need to have self respect for yourself. No one deserves to be an... (read in full...)
I'm struggling to "get it up". Any advice?
Q. Hi im 22 years old have had a good sex life up to about 3 months ago and I now struggle to get it up. I had a girl I was seeing for a bit very good looking and we both liked each other alot and it just wouldnt happen it did sort of a couple times ...
A. 11 July 2008: Getting nervous doesn't help. Of course you're not going to get turned on if you are anxious.
Best thing? Try some prolonged foreplay. Me and my fiance send each other texts throughout the day, saying what we want to do to each other. It generall... (read in full...)
Should I go to the doctor? Could I have a chest infection?
Q. Hi im just wondering does anybody know the symptoms of a chest infection? ive been getting headaches, earache, toothache, feeling weak and going dizzy, getting extremeley tired off doing literaly nothing! i keep getting short of breathe and wheezing...
A. 11 July 2008: Sounds to me like the symptoms of bronchitis. Best go to your doctor for any problem you are not sure of. ... (read in full...)
How do I get back into work with a 10-month old baby?
Q. hi. im having a career dilemma. ive got a 10 month old boy and i really want to start working. but the thing is i want to work from home and have my own hours. im really interested in writing, but dont know how to start, you know maybe be an agony ...
A. 11 July 2008: Best thing is possibly enrol on some counselling courses at your local college and creative writing. There are lots of jobs you could do from home which would fit around your baby.
Try gumtree.com for idea on courses and jobs from home. Also, go... (read in full...)
I had sex with my cousin, and now my period is three weeks late.
Q. I have a HUGE problem. I have a great steady boyfriend of almost 4 months, and I'm pretty sure I love him. The problem is, one night i got really, really drunk (my first time drinking). I've always had a thing for my cousin who is a few years older ...
A. 11 July 2008: You're young so your periods are still settling into a normal pattern anyway. But stress and anxiety do not help. Get a pregnancy test sooner rather than later to ease your worries.
My recommendations?
a) If its positive, you tell your cousin... (read in full...)
I want to be with my ex who has changed for the better, but I'm married. Kids are involved so it is difficult to decide.
Q. I have a serious problem. I dated S in highschool, and ended up having a baby with him. At the time, we broke up because he was being a jerk. Right after I had the baby, I met J, and proceeded to marry him after a while. We have 2 other kids. ...
A. 11 July 2008: Sorry to be brutally honest but i think you're being selfish.
You are trying to hang onto the good parts of a relationship that didn't work. Yes, you have a child with S but if it didn't work then why should it work now?
You need to look at ... (read in full...)
Is it normal that I'm only attracted to older men?
Q. I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm only attracted to older men... like 35-65. I have never been attracted to anyone my age. Is this normal? If not what's wrong with me? ...
A. 11 July 2008: I think its just a development of puberty. When i was the same age I had crushes on older men, generally film stars and singers. i think its perfectly normal to be attracted to older men when you possibly see them as "Perfect".
As long as you are ... (read in full...)
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