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*ierani417
writes:Dear ________,I see my boyfriend almost everyday, or at least talk to him but, when he told me he was going away for a week to a town 2 hours away and I couldn't talk to him at all, I knew I had to do something to let him know that I really love him and would do anything for him. So, we were all alone in my bedroom, and we starting making out..I thought I'd surprise him, and I started pulling down his pants and I gave him a hand job, I could tell he liked it, but I don't know for sure if he comed or let out any sperm...We stopped after about 20 minutes and then we just layed there watching TV and holding hands. About 5 minutes later we started making out again, and he decided to surprise me, and he started fingering me. I wasn't thinking at the moment, but then I realized that he was using the hand that I held with the hand I used that might of had sperm on it! I'm really scared I might be pregnant...My breast have been hurting, my lower stomach has been too. I'm just scared because I don't know how to tell him he might be a father, and I really don't know how to tell my parents they might be grandparents..Am I pregnant? What do I do? Please help!!!Thank you so so much!!!xxTierani
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reader, MzMoni27 +, writes (13 July 2008):
You are probably experiencing anxiety. Our minds can play tricks on us and we can make ourselves experience anything. You are probably not pregnant. Just to be on the safe side take a test. And the next time be responsible if you are going to engage in any sexual activity. I've been where you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): there really is no way for you to get pregnant like that sweetie. your breast and stomach hurt because you probalby have your period coming on. im not a doctor but i think that you would have to have quite a bit of sperm there for that to happen
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (13 July 2008):
 Like O'Connor said, it's very unlikely you're pregnant, but things like this do happen. The only way to make sure is to get a pregnancy test of go to your doctor and get checked.
Also think about when he fingered you. Did he go into the vagina with his figners? Or did he just touch your clit? If he only did the later, then you are not likely to get pregnant. Also, I read that the sperm doesn't last that long in the outside world, so your chances are slim to get pregnant.
Now, the reason your breast hurt is because either you'll start your period or they're growing. And the reason your lower stomach hurts is because you did some heavy excersise or he went in too hard. But still, go get a pregnancy test and try it.
Next time try to wash your hands and his hands before he fingers you. The vagina is a delicate system and sould be taken care of. And although this type of sexual relation is a good option for kids at your age, remember to keep this slow and to respect your body. And also that when the time comes to use a condom and to be at least of legal concsent.
Good luck and go to the pharmacy
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reader, Torianne  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 As unlikely as it is it IS possible to get pregnant without intercourse. Generally though sperm can only live outside of the body for about 5 minutes before they die and considering the amount of time between the ejaculation and his fingers inside you its unlikely.
Its possible that as you are stressing out your body may be projecting phantom symptoms. Get a test to put your mind at rest.
Also, you are young, you do not need to give your boyfriend a hand job to let him know you like him. It seemed like he already did! In the future, take it easy and just be careful not to get into this position again.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 while its very unlikely that you may be pregnant from something like that, you still need to be 100% sure - so get a test!! buy a PG test and put your mind at ease. by the way hun just want you to know that you dont need to give your boyf a handjob to keep him.
like i said get a test, if on the very slight chance that you are pregnant email me and we can talk. email me anyway if you want. im sure your fine, but a test is going to put your mind at ease more than us.
xxx
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