Did he have sex with others? Should I believe him when he says no?
Q. we lived together for six years ,he ended up moving out,its been a year we started to salvage the relationship,we havent been sexually active in this year i was waiting for him to treat me better and he is showing me that he is somewhat . So I asked ...
A. 3 October 2010: Why did you guys split up in the first place? Was it because he cheated or over trust issues because if so you need no other answer than to say that things are going right back where they started.
When he says he doesn't want to go get tested b... (read in full...)
Suspicious behaviors? Is he cheating?
Q. My boyfriend of 1year and 2months only takes me sround his mom and dad i have yet to meet his friends and other relatives and when he talks or text his friends he either speak in codes or walk outside and then gets upset if i follow him .one night ...
A. 3 October 2010: You need to discuss this with him. Something is all wrong here. He is hiding things from you and you either need to demand he tell you what is going on because you deserve to know, or you need to break things off with him. I'm sorry you are going ... (read in full...)
I have questions about condoms, masturbation and diseases--mature answers, please!
Q. loads of people in my school are NOT virgins, some of them are but i wouldnt say many people are, they all have big boobs and have nice legs, and know all about sex and masturbation, can someone answer these questions: Do condoms really protect y...
A. 3 October 2010: No, condoms are not 100% effective, and neither is any other form of birth control. Abstinence is the only 100% way of not having a child. But with that said, the female being on the pill or shot and the male using a condom combined is a pretty ... (read in full...)
He wont take me out but he always goes out! Why?
Q. hello,me and my partner have been together 3 years now i have 2 chidren with him one from my previous realationship.he never likes to take me out eneywhere he just makes excusess all the time like he as no money but he goes out on his own why why?...
A. 3 October 2010: This is usually a big red flag.
I can see why you are concerned and you have every right to be. If he goes out with his friends but doesn't take you out something is wrong. My mother went through something similiar. She had a boyfriend and they... (read in full...)
Confused by this love triangle! Help!
Q. Dear Cupid, Hello, I have been dating a guy for a few months, he was great at first helped me with everything, told me he was married but getting a divorce, he came for a visit a few weeks ago left early saying he needed to get back to fini...
A. 3 October 2010: Well, your first problem is he is married. Although he says he is in the process of the getting a divorce, this is a very common excuse to convince people to let them cheat on their marriage. I'm not exactly sure what is going on there but it ... (read in full...)
I only seem to be interested when there's a challenge
Q. Hey! So I have a problem I cant figure out... whenever theres a guy I meet that I'm attracted to, I flirt with him and everything because I like him, but then when I find out he likes me, my feelings and attraction towards them, just go aw...
A. 3 October 2010: It sounds like you are human. People always want what they can't have, it is always something that is most desired. So in that sense, you're completely normal. But when it comes to you repeatedly wanting someone until you feel they have an ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me and was with another guy three days later
Q. My ex girlfriend and I recently broke up, and just 3 days after she started dating this guy that she met when she was still involved with me. The feeling has just been so incredibly painful, I don't know what to do when she told me this I was ...
A. 30 September 2010: Just a word of emotional advice for you. More than likely she is seeing someone else because people often think that a rebound will help them get over a recent break up. In reality she is probably hurting a lot if she is with him. If she didn't ... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend ever stray or get bored of me?
Q. hello. will my boyfriend ever stray? were together a year now we see each other nearly every day. will he get bored of me? i dont want him to i love him to bits it just worries me sometimes. is it just me been paranoid? we get on great were always l...
A. 30 September 2010: I have lived with my boyfriend a year, and i would tell you to just do it with caution. Only you guys can truely tell if you are ready for that step in your relationship, time can't. I do recommend this though. I know how you feel about caring so ... (read in full...)
I feel he is not making the effort
Q. Hi I've got a problem but I don't know if its my own doing and I should just accept it or he's using what happened to punish me. I've been going out with a guy for 3yrs we were engaged and even talked about children but I've got trust issues f...
A. 30 September 2010: I know this hurts to hear, but he is using you. Sometimes we try to convince ourselves differently from what is so painfully obvious to us because we don't want to believe it. The fact that he cheated not once, but multiple times is hard enough to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend can't cope with problems or stresses... Any advice?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years, living together for 1. Most of the times we get on really well. We do lots of stuff, we have fun, we have a normal, healthy relationship in all aspects. However, my girlfriend has a problem. ...
A. 30 September 2010: You can't say that you never have bad days. And by saying she is "un-functional" in the relationship when she is stressed out is a little vague. If you truely care for someone you care for them on their good and bad days. Sometimes it a little tough ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't understand!
Q. I am desperately in need of help. I am currently 17 weeks pregnant and live with my boyfriend of over a year. We have not been doing well in our relationship and we fight daily. I am emotional and hormonal and am sure that contributes to some of the ...
A. 30 September 2010: In repsonse to odds,
when i said "my baby, my body" i was referring to his family trying to convince me of adoption. I realize that it takes two people to have a child and I wasn't being naive. I was just saying that in regards to his family, alth... (read in full...)
I need to console my ex without pressure
Q. My girlfriend left me about two months ago due to me being unfaithful. We've spoken every day since. Sometimes it's good, and other times not so much. However, we both still love each other very much. A couple of weeks ago, we ended up getting ...
A. 29 September 2010: I am a little concerned if you're aware it may very likely not be your child if she is pregnant. Keeping that in mind you seem as if you have a good head on your shoulders by the way you realize your making her feel pressured or uncomfortable. ... (read in full...)
She lied to me but I still want her back, what should I do?
Q. Well to start things off, im 19 and my recent ex is 17. I have been in college for one year, and she recently ggraduated from high school. We are young. We decided to get an apartment together as i transfered schools, to be closer to her and my ...
A. 29 September 2010: First off, I realize you say you want to get back with her but I honestly think that is not the best idea. As a girl who has done what she is doing, I am telling you she is playing games with you. Snuggling and trying to get back with you while she ... (read in full...)
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