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How can I tell him I'm in love with him and not scare him or make things awkward between us?

Q.   ok im thinking about telling my best friend of the past 13 or 14 years that im in love with him and have been for the past 3 years, well maybe not the three years part cuz when we were still in high school we told each other who we liked, and for ...

A.   24 July 2010: maybe you should spend more time with him but like more relastionship type things? and see how he reacts. for instance a romantic candle light dinner homemade and a little cute movie on the couch just the two of you to see how he handles it and if ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm because she is shy and holds back. How can I help her break this habit?

Q.   Hi, I've been trying to avoid posting another question on here because I'd really prefer to work on things like this between just me and my girlfriend. But I'm kinda stumped on this one and the outside advice could help us a lot... Ok, here goes...M...

A.   24 July 2010: well of course its not you!! just try an ease things up like luckyirishlass says so she can feel more compfortable and less shy(: eventually she will have one.. also try going down on her might help loosen her up! play games make her feel sexy less ... (read in full...)

We had a quickie and now he acts differently to me!

Q.   I have a friend. Last week our playful wrestling got the best of us and we ended up having a quickie, because we were in a public place and in danger of getting caught... It was really nice and there has been no awkwardness, since the incident...

A.   24 July 2010: aww this is so cute(: duhh he's into you silly. he lost his virginity to you so of course he gnna be a little jealous.. ask him out just go up to him and say hey i liked the sex maybe we can try it again some time..jokingly of course u dnt want him ... (read in full...)

I have never been in a relationship in which girls were threats...

Q.   Well, to start off, I am a twenty-three-year-old gay male with an extreme amount of insecurity about my appearance when compared to others. I have an anxiety disorder (mainly social anxiety), and quiet, shy, reserved, do not like big parties, and ...

A.   24 July 2010: he shouldnt be treating u tht way to begin with! he cheated on u thts terrible my advice..move on find someone willing to treat u how u should be treated... (read in full...)

Will he break up with me because I'm shy about oral sex?

Q.   My boyfriend and I are engaging in oral sex. First time for both of us...well I am shy so these first few times we focused on him. He is more loving and attentive since we began this new fun way of showing our 3 love!!! I want him to do me, but ...

A.   24 July 2010: damn good guy to wanna give you oral!!!! just wait till u feel compfortable and then goooo for it! let lose to lol (: he wont leave he seems like a god guy girl!... (read in full...)

17, female and a virgin. Should I keep my standards high?

Q.   I am 17 and still a virgin. I have had relationships, kissed guys, and just recently hooked up with an older guy who I went to 3rd base with. I felt very regretful after the hookup because I found myself wishing that had been someone who actually ...

A.   24 July 2010: omg yes!!!! stay a virgin. trust me sex isnt anything im 17 yrs also and just recently lost mine i dont regret it. i would have went to college a virgin i was very proud of it. i always told myself no matter what i would wanna lose it to someone i ... (read in full...)

Why does my g/f seem so calm when I nag her?

Q.   sigh, i know guys are not the best at understanding emotions and what not. So here is the problem, iam going out with this girl for a year now, and its been long distance for about 6 months, because i was at uni in UK, nd she was at saudi arabia, ...

A.   24 July 2010: well you should really just chill about things you love her correct? and you know she loves you. and maybe shes just stressed cause you do keep bringing stuff up and im sure she hears hell from her family about ur situation and shes sad that she ... (read in full...)

A male coworker buying my boyfriend expensive gifts. Should I be concerned?

Q.   I have been with my bf for a very long time. He had mentioned a gay guy at his workplace who fancied him ever since he went to work there. The guy knows he has a gf. However, recently my bf went over to his place and brought him something he had ...

A.   24 July 2010: maybe you whould think about his sexual orenitaton? my uncle was married with two children for a very long time and he recently came out. It was a very big shock. but if u absolulty know hes not or couldnt be gay or bi. then maybe he just doesnt ... (read in full...)

I jumped the gun and he left

Q.   i started having problems with my husband stayinng out late with his coworkers drinking one night i decided to go by the place where he was at and when i got there i thought he was cheating on me with hes uncles stepdaughter who is 15 i hit him ...

A.   24 July 2010: you have two kids with him of course he's not just gonna up and leave. if anything this is just a funny story you will laugh about and it should show him how much you care to think about something so ridiclous. And if he really doesnt come back then ... (read in full...)

He'll kiss and cuddle but won't kiss me!

Q.   So I've been seeing this guy since 08 we have sex once in a while but he never kisses me, he'll cuddle after sex, talk with me, and play fight but never kissed me..I'm starting to like this guy alot and I wanna keep him for myself lol but I'm sure ...

A.   24 July 2010: i agree with this person just you try kissing him. or maybe just sit down and ask him about it.. you have been seeing him since 08 so theres no reason why he should feel uncompfortable.. and maybe he has a problem like this person says with ... (read in full...)

If he doesn't come looking for me what do I do?

Q.   so he said he love me ,so he said he wouldn't hurt me or leave me. I just got tired of always having to be the one who pick us both back up at the end .so I been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months now.we actually just made our 7th ...

A.   24 July 2010: i've had almost the same problem. you see my boyfriend and I have been together a little over 10 months i lost my virginity to him and everything just like you and in the beggingin it was great then he started acting like your guy so like you i ... (read in full...)

He had a girlfriend and I'm going to a wedding they'll both be at...what do I do?

Q.   I'm 16 and i went to spain with my friend for a week to visit my family. My family also had some friends visiting that were living in the villa next to where we were staying. over the week we had a bit of a thing didn't go too far. He nearly t...

A.   24 July 2010: Honestly you have done nothing wrong.. He is a pig. If he really cared about you then he would have atleast had the curtiosy to tell you he has a girlfriend. But he didnt he lied to you instead.. And has he even tried to talk to you? Im 17 yrs old ... (read in full...)

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