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writes:so he said he love me ,so he said he wouldn't hurt me or leave me. I just got tired of always having to be the one who pick us both back up at the end .so I been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months now.we actually just made our 7th month .it seem as if it all happen to quick our connection was amazing ,I even lost my virginity to him I thought it was love .but lately we have been having allot of disagreements over stuff that is going on now in my home see my uncle used to touch me when I was younger now he is back ,and also hitting on me so my boyfriend had asked me what are you doing to make him do this to you I say nothing because I am not .....its like we barely have nothing to say to each other any more I call him almost all the time he really never call me or emails me .it like he expects me to do it all every time we fight he doesn't come looking for me to see if I am fine or I feel ok I some how always write him . he hurts me but then again claims that he loves me .so today we got into because I told him that I am not feeling well and he was acting like a jerk like he cared less .so i told him its over i cant deal it it he said nothing not a word probably thinking that I would be back by his side I love him and am hurt by what i did but if he doesnt come looking for me what should I do?
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reader, tmariee +, writes (24 July 2010):
i've had almost the same problem. you see my boyfriend and I have been together a little over 10 months i lost my virginity to him and everything just like you and in the beggingin it was great then he started acting like your guy so like you i ended it.. i told him if he continued to treat me like dirt on the ground then he didnt deserve me..a couple weeks past and nothing i was hurt but then out of nowhere he calls we talk and honest to god he was a new person he was sweet he pays attention and now i cant get him off my butt..See the problem was and with you is we were to clingy we always did everythng to make it work. and you feel like if you didnt then he wouldnt even try correct? well you can't live you life like that you have to be able to know your man loves you.. so you don't talk to him just continue on with your life as if nothing happened.. yes its gonna hurt trust me i know but you have to stay strong.. and honestly if he loves you then he will come around you just gotta show him you dont need him and that will make him want you even more.. see he knows you always go back to him thats why hes not trippen but if you dnt talk to him just watch how fast he comes crawling back to you.. dnt make it so easy for him make it a challenge..show him he has somewhat of a chance but make it known he has to change his ways before u let him back in your life.. and if he doesnt then hes just a dumb guy who never was worth your time..but honestly your probally young and if he doesnt change or anything then he was just one of many obsticles in your life you will overcome. and i know it seems like the end of the world but sweetie its not theres plenty of good guys. don't be in a rush to find him either do your thing get your life together and that special guy will notice you and you will be happy(: and also maybe go to some kind of theropy for your uncle cause thts not healthy. but i honestly hope everything works out. And please dont forget what a wonderful person you are and how a man should treat you like a princess..never ever settle for anything less!
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