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writes:i started having problems with my husband stayinng out late with his coworkers drinking one night i decided to go by the place where he was at and when i got there i thought he was cheating on me with hes uncles stepdaughter who is 15 i hit him plenty of times and it was just all a misunderstanding cause he was just outside with her asking if his uncle had calm down because he wAS trying to hit her mom and he had tried to help im 22 and he is 23 i hAVENT SEEN or heard from him since then it has beeen 6 days we have 2 kids together do you think there might still be a chance that he comes back these is our first big fight
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reader, DCNddb +, writes (26 July 2010):
I would leave.
If it's the other way around and the man hits his wife over a misunderstanding, 99% of this board would say leave the abusing SOB.
You assaulted and were physically abusive somebody you love over a misunderstanding. What is to prevent you do that to our children, or myself in the future.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 I would have been annoyed at him being out late every night too especially since you have kids to look after. Why though did you assume he was cheating? Has he given you any other indications that he's cheating to make you jump to that conclusion? Also if he's not man enough to stand up for himself and defend his actions and stick by you is he really the right man for you? In terms of trying to get him to come back and talk to you can you get a message of sorry to him through his parents.
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reader, tmariee +, writes (24 July 2010):
you have two kids with him of course he's not just gonna up and leave. if anything this is just a funny story you will laugh about and it should show him how much you care to think about something so ridiclous. And if he really doesnt come back then maybe he was just looking for an excuse to leave and if thts the case he's not even worth your time. and then you should move on with your life. afterall you have two kids you gotta worry about.. just relax and everything will work out for itself(:
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