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*rsweetestsin
writes:So I've been seeing this guy since 08 we have sex once in a while but he never kisses me, he'll cuddle after sex, talk with me, and play fight but never kissed me..I'm starting to like this guy alot and I wanna keep him for myself lol but I'm sure he's not interested in me in that way. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): sorry to say... But the more likely answer is that 'kissing' is something you save for a 'close' or serious relationship. You said yoou have been having sex since 2008. I dated this guy for a while... He was so into the relationship in the first year we were kissing incessantly... Then he stopped kissing me... I then started figuring out he was seeing someone else... If that didn't mean anything else I don't know what does... There is usually a reason why not... Many times th act of kissing is a committal act... If he isn't... May be te sex for him is enough.... Would you want to kiss your 'friend with benefit' ... Only knowing the act of kissing connects to passion?
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reader, Ursweetestsin +, writes (24 July 2010):
Ursweetestsin is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm gonna try and go in for the kiss but i'll feel stupid if he pulls away..if that happens I'll just ask him what's the problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): Without kissing there is no relationship,kissing your partner is a very special feeling as the song said(its in his kiss)
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reader, tmariee +, writes (24 July 2010):
i agree with this person just you try kissing him. or maybe just sit down and ask him about it.. you have been seeing him since 08 so theres no reason why he should feel uncompfortable.. and maybe he has a problem like this person says with kissing.. just talk to him and be straight forward.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 Try kissing him if he pulls back then be very straight forward that you want to know why he never kisses you. There is no point wasting your time with someone who isn't all there for you.
Although he may be turned off by kissing for some reason. It's unlikely but not impossible.
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reader, Over..worried. +, writes (24 July 2010):
 Maybe he just doesn't like kissing?
Have you ever tried to kiss him, or talk to him about this? You might want to
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